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I’d intended on taking the time to say thanks when I hit 1,000 posts – I still have 18 to go – but a comment that came in today reminded me that it is never too early to express gratitude, nor can you say thanks too often. That I needed a subject to post about today just made it that much more convenient. A momentary lapse in judgement resulted in me starting this blog a year ago in February. I thought it might be fun and I’d play with it for a year and then find something else to interest me. That deadline passed; I’m still having fun and that is in a large part thanks to those of you who post comments and drop the occasional email.
Mouthing off, telling a few tales, and ridiculing those who seemed to be asking for it was, for me, the initial allure. But then damned if y’all didn’t happen. I ended up finding an on-line community when I didn’t even know I was looking for one. I’d call you my wolf pack, but then the plot requires me to surreptitiously slip y’all some drugs. And I’m not real good at that sharing thingy.
I’ve been corrected, I’ve been educated, and I’ve been frequently entertained. I get agreed with far too often, but it’s been nice that some of you have called me on my shit occasionally too. And at least one of you gives me a laugh every day. The advice, comments, and outpouring about my relationship with Noom has meant more than you probably realize; it’s been an integral part of building that relationship and if for nothing else, for that alone I thank you for.
Dancing with the Devil in the City of Angels is averaging just under 5,000 page hits and 1,500 unique visitors a day now. That, I’m sure, is largely due to the power of male flesh. There are new people popping up and making themselves known all the time, and even more gratifying, there is a strong cadre of you who have been around for quite some time and just keep coming back. There is probably a 12-Step program somewhere out there that would be a more productive use of your time, but I’m glad you’ve stuck around.
And while I’m on the subject of me, thanks for putting up with my Olympic posts. It’s not the content most of you come here for, but has done wonders for adding new readers to my blog. So I apologize. But not too sincerely. In fact you’d be wise to take that apology as a warning because I’m sure to ramp up my efforts when the Games actually begin. Huh. Guess I’m not real good at that apologizing thingy either.
Like many of you, my initial foray online – in an attempt to stay in touch with Thailand when I’m not there – was with the message boards. They still serve a purpose, but have become a shadow of what they once were. Too many posters have been banned or left, many of whom’s participation I always enjoyed. Some of you still post to them, and I’m always glad to see that ‘cuz I know there will be something worth reading. I still visit most of them, but mostly because of my need to have someone to pick on. The warm fuzzies that I get don’t come from that community; strangely enough that comes from a blog, which by its definition is not a vehicle for two-way communication. Go figure.
So thanks. To all of you. I hope I’ve occasionally been able to entertain and amuse you. I never expected that you would entertain and amuse me in turn, but you have. Mahalos for that.
Mitch S. said:
Congratulations on the 1,000 post milestone!
The Olympic posts have been great. Super photos. I’m excited for the start of the games in just a few days.
P.S. — I do need to set the record straight on one of your earlier posts. I watched “Magic Mike” a few days ago and Channing Tatum has to be “roy percent” straight. He was only stripping for ladies. 😉
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Mitch. And you are right. When I saw Chan do his bump and grind on SNL it was obvious he’s straight. No gay boy could look so wooden stripping.
But there are millions of hopeful out there – searches on his sexuality are still a major driving force to the pages of this blog.
Lukylok said:
Thank you too. Your sarcastic view of the “community” keeps me laughing. The different look of the thai society is fascinating. And most of all, your story with Noom, relates much better than I could, some of the incidents of my own experience with my BS. Sometimes hilarious for me, because I lived the same.
For all that, thank you ! And please continue !
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks LL!
A friend emailed this morning saying this post sounded like a sign-off. Now that should make a lot of people happy! For the record, I have no intention to stop blogging. I enjoy the interaction with you guys too much. And knowing that everytime my blog pops into other’s minds or into a conversation (or forum thread) blood pressure shoots upward . . . well, that’s just one of those things that makes living life so much sweeter.
🙂
tim said:
ok i give up … ive looked baxkwards forwards sideways …. and i cant find the p.s.
fooled-yas-all … ya bunch of c**nts ( ill be nice being as you are ) where is it ??
Bangkokbois said:
LOL.
Um, I thought all that went without saying!
Logan said:
Bangkokbois,did you see the story on how the arrival of the athletes to the Olympic village in east London overloaded Grindr so much it shut down for a day in that area?
Thought that story would be right up your street….
It was in an English tabloids so it must be true!
Bangkokbois said:
Yeah I did Logan – amazing what makes the international news these days!
Unfortunately the account I read explained why the sudden influx of hot bodied athletes could not have been to blame. I really need to quit reading reputable news sources.
jeffreymonsoon said:
No……Thank You!
The truth, despite what Mrs. Pekuri would tell me as she was sending me from the classroom in third grade, is that everyone Does love a smartass.
Bangkokbois said:
The bitch!
And for the record, I made it through to fifth grade before the same happened to me. Guess I was a slow bloomer.
Stry said:
I found your site because I used to read the many Thai message boards. Although I don’t read the message boards as much as I once did, I look at your blog almost everyday.
The photos are fantastic (and it goes without saying, so are the guys you feature). And many of your stories are great to read. And I like your sense of humor.
I hope you keep on doing it……at least until I can make it to Thailand myself….and start writing my own stories.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Stry.
I’m looking forward to reading your stories, I get tired of reading mine ‘cuz I always know how they turn out.