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For those of us who visit Thailand, and its bars, frequently, the entire process of a night out is pretty humdrum. We know what to expect. We don’t even think about the details. It’s all second nature to us. But what about the new guys? It’s not like outside of Thailand you’ll ever have an experience even close to that of visiting one of the gay gogo bars in Bangkok. While a first time visit is undoubtedly thrilling, it also can be a bit unnerving as the newbie hasn’t a clue as to how the whole thing works.
If their first visit wasn’t a spur of the moment decision while already in Bangkok, the newbie probably tried to find out the scoop through the internet. Which means they found one of the gay Thailand forums. What a scary introduction that must be! If they man up and post their questions . . . yikes! Doubtful they’ll get the answers they were looking for. But before the thread goes totally off the track (that’d be by responding post #5) they’ll be accused of being someone they never heard of; someone else will abusively tell them to use the search function; some old disgruntled Pattaya expat will tell them they will be ripped off, left with blue balls, and spat upon; and one of the bar owners in Pattaya will use their post as an excuse to promote his bar.
So, for the newbie, here’s a step by step program for your first visit to a gay gogo bar in Bangkok.
1. Get one under your belt. Doesn’t matter which bar is your first, once you’ve popped your cherry you’ll be a pro and can then start hitting the various bars to find the one that suits you best. Outside of the bar there will be one or more barkers. It’s these guys job to lure you into the club with false promises. No problemo. Just allow them to push you inside. You’ll immediately be handed off to a mamasan, or more correctly, a captain.
2. Yes, that is a totally nude and erect guy on the stage. Ignore him for now. The captain will use his penlight to escort you to a seat. On subsequent visits you’ll have learned where you like to sit. Don’t be picky on this visit, just sit your ass down. The captain will immediately take your drink order. You may not be able to hear him because of the loud, blaring disco music, or you may not be able to understand his attempt at English. Doesn’t matter. Whatever it is he is saying, the important part is your drink.
3. Think of your initial, and possibly only, drink as a cover charge. No, you can not just sit there and look, you have to order at least one. Doesn’t matter if you order water or Johnny Walker Blue on the rocks (not that they’d actually have that) the cost is the same. Probably 250 baht. When in doubt, just say “Singha”. Soon your drink will appear, usually brought by a different guy. This guy is the waiter. In addition to your drink he will bring a piece of paper about the size of an index card and put it in a container in front of you. This is a check bin. More papers will be added as you order more drinks for yourself or others. Feel free to pull it out and look at the amount if you want. You won’t settle up, however, until you are ready to leave.
Occasionally, if the show is on and the bar is really packed the waiter will want you to pay right then. If so this will be clear to you. He will say, “Pay Now”. If you picked Dream Boys in Bangkok as the bar for your first visit, you’ll pay for your first drink at the door and be given a ticket to exchange for your drink inside. Any further drinks will follow the normal routine of using the check bin.
4. Time to check out the guys. Yes, they are all staring at you. Some may even be smiling at you. If you smile back, that’s an invitation to join you so you might want to ignore them at first. If the mamasan is pushy, she’ll be back pretty quick asking, “You want boy?” Do not be polite. Just Say No! If you are lucky she’ll leave you alone so you can have a chance to check out the guys. BTW, mamasans are generally not women, even if they look like they are. But we all call them mamasans and ‘she’ anyway.
5. Most of the bars, at least those with a stage, have two offerings of eye candy. The first is called dancing though these days none of the guys actually dance. They stand on the stage and stare into the mirrors on the walls. They will be dressed in shorts or underwear. Each will have a small numbered badge attached to their shorts. In Thailand it is considered rude to point. So if you decide you would like to meet one of the guys, you can ask the mamasan for him by number. She will not understand you. So then you’ll point to the guy you want. This is Thailand. You do not need her assistance, however, generally just smiling at the guy that interests you will be enough. A small wave toward you may necessary.
At a lot of the bars one or more of the guys will take it upon himself to come over. If you like what you see, say “hi” back to him and he will join you. If you don’t want the twinky little fem who is screeching “hi” at you in 20 syllables, do not be polite. Just Say No, Shake your head. He’ll walk off in a huff. Good riddance.
The guys on the stage will rotate, meaning they will slowly make their way around and then off the stage to be replaced by a new guy. They do this in groups. It won’t take long for the entire of stable of boys to have made their way on stage. It’s good to wait and see everyone the bar has to offer before singling one out. Nothing worse than already having a guy sit with you and then spying the man of your dreams walking onto the stage.
6. When the already loud music gets louder, the show will begin. The room will get dark. Some twinks will come on stage and disco dance or some ladyboys will come on stage and lip synch. The nice thing about the show is that the mamasans tend to leave you alone while the show is on. If you are lucky. Depending on the bar and how many customers are there, the show will progress with more and more nudity. Soon there will be naked guys with hard cocks standing just a few feet in front of you. Sex acts will soon follow. Your cock will probably get hard. Don’t worry about it. All those other guys sitting around you looking like they are falling asleep? They are expats. They have seen this a million times. They don’t get hard until the Viagra kicks in. Playing with yourself, btw, is frowned upon. You are not Pee Wee Herman.
If there is a large enough crowd, or it is the late show, the performance will end with a fucking act. Yes, he is really being fucked. Notice he is either still wearing shorts or has his hand cupped around his cock. He is not hard. Nor is he enjoying this. But the bar is paying him 100 baht. Now you know what a Thai is willing to do for 100 baht. The copulating couple, unless you are extremely blessed, will leave the stage and circulate amongst the crowd. If you screwed up your karma in a previous life, they will stop in front of you. The guy getting fucked will lay himself across your lap and screech, “Tip meeeeeee”. Do so quickly so they leave. 20 baht is more than enough. This is not a tip. It is extortion.
When the show is over, the lights will go back up and the ‘dancing’ will again commence. Repeat as necessary.
7. You are not obligated to off a boy just because you walked into the bar. No one there may be to your liking. Or you may want to look at other bars first. Or you may want to not quite go that far your first time out. No worries. It’s all good.
8. When you are ready to leave you can signal the mamasan. Picking up your check bin will also work as she will magically appear if you do so. The mamasan will look thru the papers in your check bin and make an attempt at doing addition. It’s a good idea for you to have already tallied up your drinks in advance because she’ll probably get it wrong. She is not trying to cheat you. She is just stupid. When you both agree on the amount hand her your money. If you have change coming, a waiter will bring it back to you in small coins and small bills hoping you will leave all the small stuff as a tip. Thais do not tip. You do not have to tip. But it is nice to leave the coins and if you are like most guys you don’t want a bunch of worthless coins in your pockets anyway. As you leave, tip or not, off or not, half of the staff will wai to you. They are not being sincere. Do not wai back. You don’t know how to do it properly anyway, so don’t bother. If your mama raised you to be polite, you can smile and nod your head instead.
Congratulations! You just survived your first visit to a gogo bar in Bangkok. What? You didn’t get to talk with a boi? You wanted to actually take one home with you? You need to take a piss? Sorry. Read on:
Time In The Bar: So you spotted a guy that made your already dick bounce around a bit. Or you didn’t have enough balls to chase that screeching little fem away. So now what? As much fun as the bar is to you, the guys working there actually see it as a job. This means they are there to make money. Time is money. And they just spent time with you. So pay up.
If you’ve invited a guy to come sit with you, within the first few minutes (giving you a chance to se if he really was that cute and that he doesn’t have objectionable body ordure) it is customary to buy him a drink. It’s nice of you to ask him if he wants one. If you take too long, a mamasan will usually stop buy and ask you if you want to buy him one. Not good to get the mamasan involved as she’ll want a drink too. The boi’s drink costs the same as yours. He gets about 20 baht of that. Regular bar patrons may slyly offer the boi a cash tip instead but you’re still a newbie and won’t pull that off well so don’t try. The waiter will bring his drink and add another one of those pieces of paper to your check bin.
You can spend oh 15 – 20 minutes chatting with your new friend. Your conversation will go like this:
“Where You From?”
“Where You Stay?”
“How Long You In Bangkok?”
This may be the only English he speaks. But your answer will tell him:
1. Culturally, how big of a tipper you will be;
2. Economically, what kind of money you have, or how cheap you are;
3. How many nights he may be able to get money out of you.
If after you’ve chatted a bit you decide he really isn’t what you had in mind, you can send him on his way, or leave yourself. But you should tip him for his time. 100 baht will make him happy and not put a dent in your wallet. On the other hand, if you decide he is exactly what you want, then it’s time to close the deal.
You may want to check out the goods before making your purchase. This is generally frowned upon; diddling the bois is a no-no. There is a place for that. It’s called Pattaya.
Offing A Guy: Taking the guy out of the bar with you is called offing. For straight guys it’s called a bar fine. The process is simple. Ask him if he wants to go with you. He undoubtedly will, though he does have the right to say no. If he says no you might want to bathe before you visit a bar next time. If it’s a go, he’ll usually signal the mamasan and then go change into his street clothes. The mamasan will add a final paper to your check bin. The off fee will run 400-500 baht. You are paying this to the bar and the money is for the bar. Yes, the bar is a pimp you pay directly.
What isn’t as simple, and what many guys balk at, or totally pass on, is reaching a mutual agreement about your satisfaction. You need to ask the boi if he is willing to perform any and all sexual acts that you feel necessary. Most guys are willing to suck your dick. But it is a good place to start, and asking this will help warm you up for what follows. If his English is not good, you can pantomime to get the idea across, or use the Thai slang word for the act which kinda sounds like smoke but is pronounced a bit more drawn out: Saa moke. He’ll nod. Good to go.
Anal? He’ll know the word fuck. But be clear. You want to fuck him ask, “I fuck you?” Pointing at yourself on the ‘I’ and him on the “You”. Thais do not like to say no. Especially when it means the loss of a customer. So you need to watch his reaction, too. Hesitation, means no and you are suppose to realize this. “I do everything” also means no. He didn’t really answer your question, did he? Same if you want to bottom. Most Thai guys have no problem being the top. But you may be hitting on a true bottom (looks can be deceiving). So if that is important to you, ask. Anything beyond that (i.e. SM, water sports, fisting) is beyond the pale and not on the menu. Most of these guys are straight. They are used to us weird farang, but trying to convince one how much fun it’ll be to have him piss on you . . . just ain’t gonna happen.
And speaking of pissing, if you need to go while you are at the bar there is a good chance there will be one or more employees there to help you. For some reason Thais have decided customers enjoy a shoulder massage while they are pissing. You should tip that guy 20 baht. Preferably after you have washed your hands. If the bar doesn’t have a restroom attendant you’ll instead get to experience one of the most disgusting toilets you’ll ever see in your life. Thais use squat toilets, a hole in the ground. They are unfamiliar with the toilet we use in the West and do not realize they need to be cleaned occasionally. Or flushed. You’ve been warned.
Now I hate to leave you hanging, but what comes after you walk out of the bar with your new BFF is another story and another blog entry, so go look at the menu to the right under ‘Dancing With The Devil” in the category section and click on the appropriate link.
A Final Word About Tips
If the mamasan has actually been of help, which is as likely as winning the lottery, you should tip her. 100 baht is cool. If one of the waiters has been attentive, or he’s just hot, you can tip him too. BUT, whatever money you leave in the folder they brought your change in goes to the house. If you want to tip the waiter, you need to hand back the folder first, then hand him his tip directly. How much? Again, up to you. 20 baht is an acknowledgment. 100 baht and you’ll get one of those glorious Thai smiles.
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Francis said:
“On subsequent visits you’ll have learned where you like to sit. Don’t be picky on this visit, just sit your ass down. The captain will immediately take your drink order. You may not be able to hear him because of the loud, blaring disco music, or you may not be able to understand his attempt at English. Doesn’t matter. Whatever it is he is saying, the important part is your drink.”
This is now my new favorite blog… this guy is a genius..
dropdeadguys said:
(blush)
I lub you Francis!
Francis said:
“It’s a good idea for you to have already tallied up your drinks in advance because she’ll probably get it wrong. She is not trying to cheat you. She is just stupid.”
I have never in my life laughed harder than I have while reading this.. I’ve been over 9 times and everything is so accurate..
paul said:
yes i’m a bangkok gay bar visitor since 30 years. my drinks alwys are right. never got shited. the boys on te other hand mostly are lazy in bed.
Bangkokbois said:
I’m not sure if it is lazy or apathetic. But if you remmove the sex, the level of service is not that different than what you often get at stores and restaurants for example. In any cased, thank the gods for those who do provide good service!
David said:
Fantastic advice and really entertainingly written. One bit missing for me is how much to pay the boy for an overnight stay?
dropdeadguys said:
Thanks David, um can I get away with up to you?
no?
I posted a lengthy article on off fees, it’s listed as ‘Bar Boy Tips’ under the Dancing With The Devil category on the right hand side of this page. Shorter answer for now: Depends on where you are. In Bangkok/Soi Twilight a long time off, overnight, your tip should be in the 1,500 to 3,000 baht range with 2,000 baht being the norm.
Good luck & have fun!
chris said:
i love this post. this helped me a lot when i had my vacation in BKK. Keep up the good work. =)
dropdeadguys said:
Thanks Chris!
Hope you enjoyed yourself on your visit.
no Ws? said:
Even for money they won’t get kinky? What about getting chemical enhancements? Can they help with that? if I’m payin’. u wAnt a FREAK. not possible? J
Bangkokbois said:
Possibly, if you were real clear about what you want and are willing to pay a premium, but you’d do better looking amongst freelancers on Gay Romeo. Poppers are illegal in Thailand, most bring with if that’s your thing. Any other chemicals are readily available. But then so are long stays at the Bangkok Hilton and there’s a good chance that’d be where you end up.
The gogo bars are just not the place you should be looking for that type of entertainment. On-line you’ll do better and might even find someone who’s actually into whatevers.
bouboss said:
I have been lurking and reading your blog since January of 2012. This is in the anticipation for my Bangkok Trip that happened last week.
First stop was a trip to Tawan Bar. As I am a fan of husky men, I went in there at 10pm and had a good look at the men on stage before the show started at 11pm.
I was particularly looking at this boy named Lucky, who looked and not that muscled up compared to the other men. He was joking around the stage and I thought that his spirit was fun. Yup I actually thought of that.
The show was good but it would fail in comparison with what the shows in Dream Boys Bangkok offer. None the less it was amusing, my first trip to a gay bar ever and it had to be in Bangkok.
I off’d Lucky and he did not speak English. The waiter and the Mamasan had to translate to him that we will be going to my hotel room near by.
He was very nice but very straight. He did not like to kiss and he was there to work. So when we returned to my hotel, Lucky said he is worth 2000 Baht aside from the 650 Baht I paid in Tawan.
2000 Baht for 1 hour, I thought it was expensive but hey it was my first time so what the heck. I can’t argue with him since he does not speak a word of English.
Anyway he ended up fucking me like he hated me (LOL) and did I forget to mention I was a Virgin! Damn it was like train wreck waiting to happen but Lucky was not there to please but to fuck and leave and so he did.
How did I know he was 100% straight? He watched straight porno on his phone for the first 15 minutes to get up. Closed his eyes while we did the deed. Did not kiss me or anything. He fucked me like I was a girl, not that I would know how that is but from watching a lot of porn it sure did feel like it.
So with no spoken word, he flipped me from one position to another. From the Bed to the Shower to the Sofa in the room and in every possible position. And yes did I forget to mention I was a Virgin. Apparently Ouch, Stop and Slowly is not spoken in Thai because Lucky just kept going. But he did say he is ready to orgasm by pulling out of me and removing the condom and them thrusting his penis inside my mouth. It was a mouthful, pardon the pun.
For my first time in everything, it was a very weird experience and I thought the next time I off somebody, it would not be in Tawan but in another gay bar and so thats what I did for the next 3 days in Bangkok.
My last hurrah was visiting Arena Massage parlor which offered boys like the boys in Tawan and FINALLY I was with someone who knew what they were doing, although he did not speak that much English he certainly incorporated me in the “love making” and for the first time, after 4 times being fucked in 3 straight days I orgasmed and that was when I thought was the best way to end my Bangkok Trip.
Bangkokbois said:
All’s well that ends well?
🙂
Thanks for sharing your story bouboss. Sorry your adventure in Bangkok didn’t start off well, but then it all is a learning experience. As I was reading your tale, I thought you’d done good on picking a guy with some life in him; as soon as I read he quoted a tip price, I knew better. Too bad. But what a way to start your life off visiting gay bars!
Carlos said:
As I read and laughed I am thinking…..right, right, oh yea that too! I love Thailand and always have a ball. I go to enjoy the guys, girls and everything in between. I find not being to serious or too drunk and being as generous as the situation calls for will ensure a great time on subsequent visits. Believe me they remember us, the good, the bad……you know! Thanks, great read!
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Carlos!
Amazing how well they remember us! That alone should be enough to teach ya to be on your good behavior!
Reggie said:
Brilliant guide! Very engaging and informative. Thank you very much! 🙂
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Reggie!
And thanks for taking the time to leave a comment, too!
Eli said:
Haha, I’ll be in Bangkok for the 1st time end of this month and this entry is really helpful!!! For real!!! Thanks for the info man.
Bangkokbois said:
Ah to be a newbie again!
Thanks for your comment Eli – you are gonna love Bangkok!
Chanhand Dterh said:
Never say “Singha”. It is “Sing” or “Bia Sing”
Mark said:
This is a nice series of articles, I have been in Thailand before but my recent trip included my first visit to a “boy bar” and second and third…. well anyway your articles helped alot.
Bangkokbois said:
Cool.
And nice to hear from someone else who discovered Thailand first and its bars later.
brian t said:
Was robbed by the barman in god. Not a good place. full of people selling drugs too. I went to the bar to buy a bottle of water, gave the barman 1000bht, he gave me 400bht change and said i gave him a 500. I told him he made a mistake and he told me to fxxx off back to my own country. I asked the bouncer to talk to the manager and was told, no manager in here. ?The place sucks. Be careful
Bangkokbois said:
Sorry to hear that Brian, though I’ve never had a problem at GOD myself.
Andy said:
Hello bangkokbois i have a question: is the off fee the same, whether it is short time or for a week? Will the boi then pay the bar for the additional days from your tip? Thank you!
Bangkokbois said:
Hey Andy –
I’ve always disagreed with the notion that there is no such thing as a stupid question.
No worries, yours isn’t. For someone new to Thailand’s bar world.
The off fee is owed daily, though it is the same for both short and long-time offs (and may differ slightly in amount from one bar to the next). Regardless of the time of day you first off a guy, when his next work day begins (around 8pm at night) you will owe an additional off to the bar if he is still with you. If you didn’t take care of that bill the night before, the boy will usually haul your ass back to his bar so you can pay it. If you don’t, he will be liable for it. Which is not right. And no, the additional off fees do not come out of his tip.
If you know you want the guy to stay with you, say for a week, you can pay the total off on your first night. So if the off fee is 400 baht and you want him for 7 nights, you’d owe 2,800 baht to the bar. Some suggest that you can negotiate the total down, probably more so in Pattaya than in Bangkok. Attempting to do so is your decision. Of course your boy will know you tried whether you are successful or not and may decide you are a bit of a chap bastard in doing so. But up to you.
Not that you asked, but I have heard some say that when you off a guy for several days you should also get a discount on his tip. I won’t go into their justifications for that because as logical as they sound it’s just someone being cheap and trying to get away with more for less. If you normally pay say 2,000 baht for a long time off and keep the guy for 7 days, you owe him 14,000 baht as a tip (plus the 2,800 you paid to the bar in off fees).
Andy said:
400 x 7 = 2800
Is this really Thailand? 🙂
Bangkokbois said:
Well, a mamasan doing the calculation may come up with a different answer . . .
R. Zabiola said:
I’m a first timer in the boy market, although I’ve been in Bangkok several times. Now I am planning to get some company. I would like to see, meet and off a boy from the younger (but strictly legal) end, say 18-22 or so. Is this just wishful thinking? I don’t expect the boy to fuck me or to be fucked by me, so a straight dude working for money would be fine with me. Any tips where to start loooking?
Bangkokbois said:
No problemo RZ, it’s probably more about the type of guy than that age range you’ll find a slight chore. Plus, even if he’s 26 he probably looks 20.
Hit Soi Twilight, most of the bars have a range of types. Classic, down at the far end tends to specialize in twinks. If who you are looking for isn’t on stage at the first bar, just visit another. It won’t be long until you find the guy of your dreams.
If you are into muscle, you’ll want to go to Tawan, down Suriwong, instead. And GQ model types are at Jupiter, across Suriwong (although the bar tends to cater to Asian customers and short-time offs).
Good luck!
quintin du plessis said:
JUST WANT TO SAY … I LOVE YOU WEBSITE….XX
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Quintin – and I love that you love it too!
Shay O'Byrne said:
This has to be one of the better, absolutely spot on and funny at the same time blogs on gay go go bars in BKK. I’m back in BKK again. I did a methodical trawl through every one of the listed bars ‘cos they change all the time. The biggest disappointment is how Tawan Bar has deteriorated. The men have become a bit flabby, they laze around the place – some asleep, others on their mobiles. They seem totally uninterested. And the show which used to be so spectacular is now a bore. And the men I am now told are more interested in other Asian men like Koreans etc. My favourite bars now are Dreamboys and Jupiter.
Keep up your fabulous posts. Such good fun and so accurate.
Bangkokbois said:
Thank you Shay!
That has been a problem with Tawan for several years now. They started confusing fat with muscle and on some nights that’s all that is there. It’s kinda hot and miss. Though usually Friday and Saturday nights are safe. But you had the right idea – check out all the bars ‘cuz what was hot two months ago may not be now and the bar that wasn’t worth stopping in back then may be the best now.
Pattaya Garden Hotel said:
Hi! I’m at work surfing around your blog from my new iphone 4! Just wanted to say I love reading through your blog and look forward to all your posts! Carry on the outstanding work!
kapil said:
hey
ill be going to a go go bar for the first time???and if I don’t wanna take the boy to my hotel room-will the bar be able to arrange a room for me??
Bangkokbois said:
Few of Bangkok’s bars offer short-time rooms these days. But there are several hotels in the area of Soi Twilight that provide rooms by the hour. Suriwongse and the BBB Inn are two of them. Ask the guy you off before you leave the bar – he probably knows where they are and if not you can ask a mamasan who will give your guy directions. (There is a post on Patpong hotels that shows both of these places on a map on this blog – use the search box at the bottomish of this page to find it.)
kapil said:
thanks
Bangkokbois said:
De nada.
Caleb Wickham said:
One bar, a real dive off to the right and around the corner from Nature boys when heading to Mango Tree restaurant, has a room above it for home-turf trysts. Sadly there is little to recommend the bar itself and nearly nothing with which to tryst. Trust me.
Bangkokbois said:
Yes, there were several sleaze bars in that area, not quite as many anymore. And Nature Boy out does them all. But it’s all a matter of taste. Those were and are the must hit bars for many visitors.
tad said:
bangkok .. i still remember .. my first trip to bangkok.
and bangkok made me to believe that world is really a small place …
first day when i was in bangkok … i was all alone , so i thought better to take it slow . and i went to street bar and some bar near by my hotel .
and i was drinking alone .. first it was bit bore cos i was all alone … but after some time .. i star to talking with some girls and guy .. and time become better , cos most people was tourist … and they were feeling the same like me .. alone and new to bangkok.
and after some hours i meet two guys . they were really nice guy , one was gay and other not .
and they told me about the place called silom .. the place for gay .
so next night around 9 pm i went to silom . and pic one gay bar from random bar .
first i was setting outside the bar with my beer and smoking .. and i notice that around 4 or 5 guys was in to me .. but it was my first time so i didnt give them any hope ..
later on i went inside the bar .. and setting in dark side of the bar.and i notice one handsome guy and he smile on me so do i ..
and after like half hour he come to my side and set near by me .
and we start to talk.
and the magic thing happen there.
actually we both know eachother from long .. like one year we were chating in planetromeo. but never meet cos he was in england and i was in asia .. so there was no chance to meet .
i was happy cos i like him … and i hope he did too.
and we talk for long hours .. and decided to end up in his place . i was new in bangkok but not feel alone anymore .
so we went to his place .
but we just talk all the night .. but no sex ..
and in morning we had really great sex .
then i thought world is really small and anything can happen.
and bangkok is really haven for gay people.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks for sharing your story Tad. Bangkok holds a fascination for many gay men, and for many different reasons (though being gay men it ultimately always ends up having something to do with sex.) Silom is a great example; smack dab in the middle of the city’s most heavily populated touri area there are gay pubs and clubs operating out in the open where travellers can mingle with other like-minded individuals with no concern or worries about being hassled or mistreated. And you might even get lucky and find a guy to share your holiday with.
Mitch S. said:
He spells, punctuates and capitalizes just like Timmy, don’t you think?
Bangkokbois said:
I did think that, but then he never lost the narrative, so . . .
daNnyZ said:
I returned home from my first visit to Bangkok two weeks ago and can’t wait to go back again. Your blog is tiding me over until then. This article is hillarious in how true it is. Keep up the good work.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Danny.
I predict there will be lots of visits to Thailand in your future!
🙂
Andi Cheok (Singapore) said:
hi.. I am from Singapore.. was in Bangkok few days back.. and chanced across your blog while desperately googling, yahooing, watevering.. trying to figure out how to get to soi twilight in a Tut Tut from Silom BTS.. ha ha..
was there with my straight friend.. so we have already visited Patpong, Cowboy and Nana… and we arranged our last nite in such a way that he visit his Thai friends and I go for my boys… hee hee.. which also means i already hav a rough idea how the “procedures” goes… *hi-five*
rewind a bit.. I managed to navigate myself to Senso from Silom BTS in the late afternoon… the massage is good.. the boy gave a ‘happy ending’ as promised in their website… which paved way for much self-disappointments for the later part of the nite… ha ha…
walked around aimlessly looking for dinner… in a restaurant with blue lights… when settling the check.. the rain juz poured! the very friendly staff suggested I stay awhile more.. and assured me tat the rain will stop in 15 mins or so…
after the rain became a drizzle.. made the second mistake of the nite.. walked away fro Silom BTS searching for the Soi with the red Dream Boys sign.. which we passed by a few times earlier in the day… when i almost gave up… a Tut Tut appeared by miracle to “save” me…
onli remembering the place is soi Pratuchai.. so I told the driver tat.. after about 10 mins.. it struck me tat it cannot be so far.. coz i remembered reading somewhere is walking distance from Silom BTS..
tat is when i chanced across tis very interesting blog!… while searching online for directions… den i remembered another road name Suriwong… which I told the driver.. who replied: “boys?” wah lao (Singapore slang for Heck!)… should hav just told tat to him when i board!
within seconds (ok… within minutes… although it really felt like few seconds.. ha ha..) we magically arrived under the red signboard…
walked around a bit ignoring those man in suits pulling on every part of my body (well… except the part tat i wished they would pull… ha ha)… i walked myself up to Dream Boys… no one at the small counter.. went in myself.. no mamasan.. no captains.. didn’t really like the type of boys i see on stage… and i walked back out…
standing in the middle of the Soi.. while thinking which bar should i go into… when one of those well suited man… pulled me to the entrance of X-Club… “300 onli… show starting now… big cock show… fuck show… show start now…”
Thais generally hav a good sense of timing… except those in sleeze business… their “show starts now” means anything from half-hour to an hour later… same as in Patpong.. Nana, Cowboy…
since already experienced in straight bar hopping with my friend the past two nites… i juz act like a dumb and shy guy while the mamasan tried to seat me at the most convenient spot to her.. i indicated a corner spot – which is mistake number 3 for the nite… why ? read on… ha ha..
putting myself at the corner table.. actually invited 2 captains and the mamasan (which i nicked named the 3 stooges) to hoover around asking to buy them drinks.. coz there is more space around my table.. as compared to those normal tables..
while finally waving them off… well they keep re-aprrearing anyway… ha ha… i started reading your blog… while drooling over two boys on stage.. 21… 60.. boyish looking tat is “so my type”… ha ha…
the 3 stooges took turns to ask “which boy you like?” “which boy you want?” “i help you ask boy come”.. while i was reading the exact same paragraph in your blog! ha ha…
having experienced the straight bars… tat once the girls are seated next to you… means an endless flow of drinks for almost everybody in the bar… i was hesitant to ask for the two twinks to come over..
after almost an eternity… ok… about half an hour… the show tat was supposed to start now.. finally started… the show was good… really good… and seeing some of the guests already hav nice handsome almost naked boys sitting with them.. so screwed up my courage to ask the captain for 21 or 60… mistake number 4.. ha ha..
well… instead of the captain.. the mamasan produced boy 21… and claiming a drink from me… for the boy and herself and the captain which appeared juz as the boy sat down… welcome to Bangkok!
when the boy was seated next to me… i was actually doing few things at the same time… watching the show.. flirting with my twinky boy… trying to get a hard-on (wiithout much success – coz remembered my first mistake of happy ending massage? ha ha)… reading your blog… exactly the part where you described ~~~
“wats your name?” – checked
“my name Kong” or was it Tong? Long? anyway – checked
“u from Singapore?” slightly different from your blog.. obviously the mamasan hav already briefed him..
“where u stay” – checked
“how long in Bangkok?” – checked
by now.. i stopped reading your blog… coz the show is more interesting and the twinky almost naked boy next to me need my hands more den the smart phone… ha ha…
was fun flirting with him though.. his English was actually comprehenable.. out of the darknesss… the mamasan produced boy 60.. how she know huh?
anyway… trying to be polite… gave a tip to 21.. ask him to take a rest… while buying a round of drinks for 60.. the mamasan.. and the captain.. who by magic appeared again juz as before!
boy 60 seems more reserved.. and compared to 21.. and less appealing when up close… so after a while.. asked the captain… the mamasan could not be found at this moment when i most need her! .. to re-enage boy 21… yeap… of course gave a tip to 60… afterall… he did try to arouse me… without much success though… not him ~ its me… ha ha..
boy 60 go off… 21 produced by the mamasan.. hmm… i though i got the captain to arrange? ha ha… as usual… one more round of drinks… the captain appeared at the right time to be included in the drinks.. ha ha…
more flirting.. and enjoying now the show… which climaxing in a candle wax…wah i like !… and expected ending with the fuck show…
haiz… knowing i probably cant get it up.. and didnt pre arrange with my travel mate tat i might need the room for some time.. plus an early morning flight the next day.. I put away all temptations to off the boy… mistake 5! why?
coz in the taxi.. texted my friend.. tat i am on the way back to the hotel.. to which he replied.. he wold be back about three hours later…throwing all logic aside… i asked the taxi to turn back to suriwong… ha ha.. thinking to off the boy.. for some cuddles would also not a bad idea…
but.. a very disappointing ending… both 21 and 60 were already offed by the time hit back to x-club… and none of the “dancing boys” left behind appealed to me..
well… my last nite in Bangkok didn’t end in a big bang.. but.. the attention from the 3 stooges… 21… regardless if their hospitality is monetary driven or genuine.. really made the nite a very happy and memorable one…
and of course.. would paved the way for my next trip to Bangkok !
footnote: apologies for the long comments.. juz want to share my experience and to say: your blog rocks!
Bangkokbois said:
ROFL!
Thanks Andi! I absolutely love that you were sitting in a Bangkok gogo bar reading my blog!
Thanks for the humorous comment – I got a good chuckle out of it and it reminded me of my first time hitting the bars too.
I dunno though, it sounds to me that everything considered you had a grand experience.
But you might want to read Part VI: The Care and Feeding of Mamasans before your next visit!
Andi Cheok (Singapore) said:
Hi BKKBois..
thanks for everything in this blog! its a shame tat I didn’t manage to find it before my trip. now I am hooked reading almost everything.
although the nite didn’t end with cuddling a cute twink in bed, nevertheless, it was an experience of a lifetime. and it was fun!
yeap, already read the mamasan chapter. two mamsans stood out coz they added that extra jitz to my BKK experience.
the one in X-Club (or is it X-Boys?). she was humorous, flamboyant, poked fun at herself, her boys and me. somehow she just made my first trip to boy bars a very relaxing and hype one… no stress…
on the fist nite in BKK.. we did what all tourist do.. be slaughter lambs at the patpong nite market.. ha ha… and of course.. bar hopping with my straight travel mate ~ well I am ‘straight friendly’ mah ~ is there such a phase? ha ha..
one of the mamasans was very accommodating.. and fun loving.. think we were early like 9pm+ in the bar? we asked if guests are allowed to dance? to which.. she literally drag us up on stage to dance with the girls..
my straight friend was in heaven.. surrounded by almost naked girls dancing on a bar top… this will never happen in Singapore!
funny thing is she could sized up that I am gay.. coz she only push my friend to off one of the girls.. and to me.. she actually said: “you no like girls… you like boys. i ask boy go wit you.” pointing to the two waiters and the barker at the door!” too bad none of them appeal and I wasn’t sure she was joking or that we can really off a boy from a straight bar?
these two mamasans.. was well worth the drinks and tips.. no regrets on my part..
the other mamasans we met.. well.. fits exactly like what you mentioned in your post on them! especially the unable to tally figures part.. ha ha..
already planning my next trip to BKK!
Bangkokbois said:
Then you are already ahead of the game Andi. In all my visits I’ve only hit one mamasan who added to the night’s enjoyment. And boy did she rake in the bucks! I guess it’s just easier to be annoying than helpful.
Steve said:
‘straight friendly’ is a sensational term. I have never heard that before, and I love it!
Mrcolas said:
I’m posting this from my room here in Tarntawan place. I just had the best night ever…the guy was from dream boy and he was 150% of what i’m looking for in a boy. I picked him because he is shy type and chinese eyes… But i was surprised that when we did the did, man this boy was wild and i like the way he kissed me… I cant help but fall in love. But as what you have said dont say the magic word ILoVeYOu.
Thanks to your blog, i managed to make my first bkk experience
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Mrcolas, and congrats too!
Now about tomorrow night . . .
🙂
Mrcolas said:
I’m actually in Pattaya right now… The Ambience hotel inside boyz town… Hhahahaha
Bangkokbois said:
Then you should be falling in love again in about 3 hours . . .
🙂
Will said:
I chanced upon your blog a couple of weeks before my Bangkok visit and read them through and through. That’s quite unusual for me, but it is another testimony of how entertaining your blog is, apart from being informative.
Thanks to your blog, I did manage to take the BKK scene and the gay go-go bars in my stride – my first – and what I am going to document here is that first experience. Not sure how typical it is, but I did have a superb time and even after several days, the feeling of exuberance is still with me. In short, I hit the jackpot.
So it was past 22 hrs that after some nosing around Silom I managed to find the entrance to Soi Twilight. With a bit of contemplation I slip in, trying as much as possible to blend in and remain unnoticed. Why: I am not out and though I was in a faraway foreign land, the neons screaming down “Boys” from all sides were not helping.
Of course I couldn’t remain invisible and with as much look of “oh-I’m-an-old-hand-at-this-game” as I could muster, I tried warding of the tugging and pulling on my every body part (again, save that where I really wanted :P) I strode into the alley.
I must say that the first sight is an unforgettable experience, and not having been to such a scene ever, I was soaking it all up. I passed by those “welcoming” bars, with the hustlers and barkers at the entrance, promising all of them that I’ll be back. I intended to have a good look at the entire place first.
Even though you mention the names of several of the places and I also had done my research before my adventure, at that moment in time, nothing clicked. All was new and alluring. I did remember Dick’s though, with a couple of old couples hanging around, crowd watching.
I walk till the very end, until the neons start dying and the dark form of the broad thoroughfare Rama IV looms ahead once I turn the bend.
Heading back, decision time. Well, this is my first and with zero hopes of expectations, I havThe e nothing to loose. I spot one of those curtained entrances, with flashes of bare torsos beyond, and my brain simpy shut down. A few guys (and gals) were being coaxed into the bar ad I slipped in behind them. No coaxing needed.
Once inside, the story-line’s pretty much what’ you’ve scripted on your blog: Mamasan appears with penlight, me stooping dead in tracks to stare at the podium until I am forced into a seat, drinks appearing, bill placed in cup in front, hands all over me from those skimpy boys sitting at the back, waiting their turns on the stage. OK, so I settle down to watch and watch. Every five minutes, the hooter is back with “you want boy”, “which number” or simpy “naaambaar” from half an hour onwards. I keep waving and nodding, attempting to keep her at bay. Oh, here I should mention that the bar was Fresh Boys. Not that I cared. After my initial half-hour gawking, things were getting pretty boring, The guys in white undies would simply stand and stare, with all sorts of expressions ranging from ear-to-ear grins to a scowl or to that of a blank canvas. I spot a few that I would fancy in bed or just next to me on the sofa, but am undecided. It was nearly midnight. My first drinks almost done and the screeching in my ear is not as frequent. I decide it’s time to leave, but then in the far corner of the bar, some hurrying-scurring and more bois in colourful costumes caught my eye. I settle down for another drink.
What followed was a striptease and a big cock show. The guys would walk down the ten feet long ramp, cocks out and hard, with condoms on, and would bang their cocks hard on one of the steel poles erected at the viewers’ end. Some prowess, but not the kind I was looking for. The next show was even more wonderful, fully in the buff, and ending with one guy doing it to the other on stage. Thankfully for me, that’s where they remained and I did not have to deal with a fucking couple in my lap screaming “tip meeeee!”
By this time, the bar’s nearly empty…wonder why…are there better shows going on elsewhere, and such thoughts. The mamasan has reappeared and has resumed her rant. The captain, or so I presumed, a skiny guy in a skinnier suit and a a fedora joined her…and me…at my table. I was almost bullied into calling out a number, which I did. Not that I was very reluctant. You see, it was my first night, and probably my last in BKK and I had decided to go all the way.
Well, to cut the long story short, the boy was a disappointment. Nice and sweet, with very little English to carry out a conversation, everything was being done at mamasan’s behest. I was almost ready to off him, when the bomber struck. At my question, “Heee is a maan…you cannot fuck heeem” was screamed into my face. I was totally unprepared for this. If you mention in your writing of this prospect, that had gone unnoticed by me. By thins time, everybody (well there only the mamasan, captain and the bois left) had sensed something hilarious and I was getting a lot of smiling disapprovals, thumbs down and jeers. Not a very pleasant experience, particularly after spending more that two hours and 960 bahts (my two drinks plus the bois). I decide to call it quits, and exit the bar as elegantly as possible.
This post is already quite long so I end here, but this is just the first half of the story. Except for the not so happy ending in Fresh Boys and not being able to off the boy I wanted, it was an evening well spent.
Will said:
I’m not sure if you reached the end of my first post and would like to continue on with my rambling, but as mentioned before, the feeling of exuberance makes me jot this down. Otherwise I am no writer.
Momentarily dejected at not being able to turn the evening around a full circle, I exit Fresh Boys, eyes darting a toutes directions, for my next target. I did not have to go too far. Barely 10 metres from Fresh Boys, there is this bar up a flight of steps. I was in no mood to read names. There were willing hands pushing me up the steps with promises of making my fanciful dreams come true.
On entering the bar I find the stage packed but once again, the bois stand in their silvery undies staring blankly ahead, hands clasped behind them.
I am seated, the mamasan arrives, piousness personified compared to the previous one. It was near closing time and they plus I wanted a quick negotiation. No offers of drinks (I didn’t want any either) and I was asked to select, quickly. I shout out my specifications in his ears, and he suggests a number. Not sure, if I recall but it seems it was number 8, and that was a guy who was throwing me meaningful looks since the time I entered the bar. Nice looking chap, more pleasant that hot. Very nice body, neither ripped, nor twinky, Just the way I liked.
With not much time on hand, I call up the guy, who I considered was a dubious offer, judging from my experience in the previous bar. Closer up, he looks nicer, darker than most Thais bar bois, a very cute smile, and more that a smattering of English. Straightaway he settles down next to me, cuddling my arm in his, the other hand stroking my thigh. I was on fire. Needless to say, it was a done deal after this. I offed the boy, bar fine 600 baht instead of the usual 500, since I “did not have a drink” and negotiated an amount of 1500 baht for short time with my boi.
Once out of the bar, he was in full control, guiding me to the ATM for the cash, the pharmacy for the essential (he had only one and I none) and then onto a cheap taxi to my hotel.
The taxi ride was part of the whole memorable adventure. We actually conversed, with him cradled in my arms and I his.
There is no need for me to describe what happened in my hotel room but I’d like to mention that the sequence of events was pretty much as you mention. I shower, he showers (no water all over the floor…lucky me). Coy as can be, he slips between the sheets with the damp towel still on (sigh!) and then I get in and a blissful hour after that. The awesome part’s that the guy’s a pro and never lets you feel it. Totally in control and in rhyme with what I wanted and the way I wanted.
And during the post-coital embrace and semi-sleep, we actually talked. About stuff, about Bangkok, Soi Twilight, about his life, mostly. Not only was the sex great (I was paying for sex for the first time and wasn’t even sure I’d be able to keep it up with a total stranger and a pro), but the whole experience of getting to know a person was there as well.
I don’t care which of this was real and which was fake. I was looking for nothing more than a fuck and I land up with this. Incredible? I dunno? Perhaps people reading this can comment on their first experiences and let me know.
Such a schmuck that I am, I do not remember the boy’s name (may be it was fake) nor his number of the bar. I remember his physique, his sprayed hair (a minus for me…I like it soft and natural), his tattoes, his lips and ofc hsi cock. My guess is that the bar was X boys and he was number 8. Anybody who cares to fund out, and hits the right person will be in for a real treat for sure.
That was the story of my first night’s score in Soi Twilight. Perhaps in a separate comment, I should write parts of the conversation I had with the boy. That too was quite a bit of education for me.
To conclude, once again my sincere thanks to this blog for getting me initiated into this world.
Bangkokbois said:
I think that hand on the thigh / your hand on his naked thigh move is responsible for more offs than all the mamasans in the world’s efforts combined.
I’m glad your night out ended happily!
Thanks again for the story Will!
Andi Cheok said:
the part on your taxi ride is so similar to my first time offing a bar boi… the boi just “melts” into me… hard to describe with words… but guess those who experienced it will know…
as for the “I don’t care which of this real and which was fake”…
similar as your experience… I was just looking for a orgasm… but ended up with a friend…
the boi I offed added on Facebook… and we text each other almost daily over WhatsApp… those flowers… hearts… photos… and what nots he sends… do brighten up my days…
glad your virgin trip to soi twilight ended in a happy happy ending…
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Will, I enjoyed reading your story so much I posted it in an article of its own. Shame you met a mamasan from hell on your first visit, but at least now your future experiences can only go up!
Jean said:
Hi, Thank you for this great blog. I’m off to BKK on Friday and will take your advise ;-). Which is a good bar to go to? I’m gay and well experienced so do not need to hide or go to one of those places where old “frustrated” hetero’s are going ;)))
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Jean, and good luck wih your trip to Bangkok.
You’ll probably do best on Soi Twilight where the largest grouping of bars are. Dream Boy, X-size, X-Boys, and Hot Male are your best bet, each is a bit different from the others, each has a slightly diffrent stable of guys, and all are within a few steps of each other so you can easily chck them out to see which fits you the best.
Have a great holiday!
jay dee said:
This post is as best as they get. A totally accurate description, for a habitué coming again from overseas, but still helpful and even more than that. Informative. Congratulations on your ability to relate the life experience into a blog.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Jay Dee, glad you are enjoying my efforts.
jay dee said:
one thing, though, that I will say about fondling your own dick, is that times have changed. About 10 years ago, I pulled out my hard-on in the bars, etc., and drew favorable attention. Seated, in one Silom bar, off-duty dancers joined me on my seat, and drew out their hard-ons as well. We played with our dicks as the waiter continued to serve drinks. At one point, there was a special show on stage, described only in Thai so I didn’t know what it was about. All the dancers stood on stage, stroking their erect cocks, until one moved to the center because he was about to, yes, come, on stage.
Coming on stage is unusual, especially since a “new” (how many years ago now?) governor of Bangkok tried to clean up the sex scene. “Naked” boys in my experience now wear see-through underwear, making them desirable. The outlines of their erect cocks are clear, if size is an issue for you.
Back-stage in Chiang Mai, one moment of pleasure for me was to discover the next three naked, hard-on performers “warming up,” i.e. stroking their erections to perfection. They also enjoyed seeing my hard-on. It happened as I was going to the toilets. You never know what shit happens, but this was definitely great.
Bangkokbois said:
Ah memories.
I fondly remember when Hot Male had a rotation nightly around 10 with all the guys totally naked. Nice that Tawan still has the chuckwow contest.
Kyle said:
Thanks to your blog, my first experience at the go go bar was smooth and exciting. But I wish I had read your other posts earlier too, on falling in love with the go go boys.
I arrived at Soi Twilight quite early in the evening and was told that the show starts at 10.30pm. There was no coax I was told to come back when the show starts. Upon entering the bar, there were already boys standing on the stage with just their brief. There was a boy who caught my eye, No. 96; he looks like Mario Maurer. I was a little nervous to ask for him so I just kept watching the show until we were ushered to the ground floor for the second part of the show. I saw No. 96 had already been called to a table after dancing on the stage, I was a little disappointed. So when Thon, the captain asked if I would like to off a boy, I casually told him that the boy I like had already been called by another customer. He reassured me that he would talk to No. 96 and see if he can go back with me instead. When No. 96 walked towards me, I was so afraid that the customers he was with would come to punch me for stealing him away. Luckily that didn’t happen. After agreeing to the tips, Nick and I left for my hostel in Khao San. He wasn’t one of those clingy type who would curl in your arms or sweet talk to you. That’s what I like about him. It was a really hot session even though it lasted about an hour or so. We chatted a little and exchanged our numbers before Nick went back home. I woke up the next day kept thinking about the night before. Too bad I didn’t read your other posts and I think I fell for Nick. I texted him and asking if I could see him again. I was thinking of offing him without going to the bar (and paid the captain) but he said he had to go to work and asked me to meet him at the bar. Which I did. The show hasn’t even started and I had already told Thon that I want to off No. 96. We left the bar early and went dancing at DJ Station. I had a few drinks more than I should and I was drunk by the time we left. My hostel was quite a distance away so Nick suggested renting a room at Suriwongse Hotel for 2 hours. We had sex that night but I don’t really remember what exactly were were doing and how good it felt. It was my last night in Bangkok and I told Nick that I’d come back soon for him. He left after me insisted a kiss on my lips. A knock on the doors a few hours later woke me up from my sleep, my head was still spinning but I managed to put on my clothes and that’s when I realized my iPhone 5 was missing. My cash and card were still intact in my wallet, so I thought I must have been pickpocket in the club. It was 3am in the morning and I went back to Soi Twilight and DJ Station only to find that every bar had already closed. I had no choice but hire a cab back to my hostel. I felt so horrible. I went back to the bar again in the morning, it was still closed and there was no phone number for me to call. I then proceed to the airport to head back home. Upon reaching home and checked my email, I got an email from Apple that the app “Find My iPhone” has been disabled and there was another email ID tried to add me as a friend to find out my location. I googled the email address on Facebook and found an unfamiliar face, he was cute by the way. Upon clicking into the picture gallery, there he was, Nick! Then it hit me, Nick took my phone and gave it to his boyfriend. I somehow found Nick’s Facebook from the friend’s list and sent him a message, I got an instant block. I tried calling the bar and emailing them but no one responded to me. I was a little pissed and disappointed. I really like Nick and I’ve treated him with much love and respect, but that’s what I got in return. It was a really expensive price to pay for 2 nights of orgasm. But here’s the thing, despite all the awful experience I had, I’m currently planning another trip to Bangkok and I’m going to ask for No. 96 again! Of course I’ll ask him why would he do that; but most of all, I’m just hopelessly looking for a hot sex with Nick again!
Bangkokbois said:
Ooops!
That’s not quite how I expected your tale to read Kyle. But thanks for sharing it.
Better luck next time.
I’d question your sanity in planning on offing a guy who ripped you off again, but that’s what lust and love will do to ya.
Hope things go better next time.
Bring a 2-year-old cell phonee with you, just in case.
🙂
Caleb Wickham said:
Well, Kyle, the bar bois aren’t the only one with a network, are they?
Any reader here will now know the story and if enough farang in the know make a point of walking in and speaking to management about the missing iPhone and No96 (and walk out again) then maybe something wondrous may happen.
Who knows?
Andi Cheok said:
Caleb.. not difficult to conclude which bar.. “ushered downstairs”…
Kal said:
I’m heading to BKK in a couple months for the first time. I’m American, I’m round and in my 30’s; nothing special here.
I’m also black. What should I expect? Will things still go as you’ve laid out?
Bangkokbois said:
lol
“I’m round”
Thanks for that laugh Kal.
🙂
Other than slightly raised prices and slightly more aggressive/desperate bar boys and mamasans, the scene has not changed. Although there are more street-side beer bars on Soi Twilight now, so you can drink and score a hottie a bit cheaper if that’s your druthers.
As for how you’ll do, age, race, and degree of roundness really don’t come into play. The size of your wallet (or heart as the boys prefer to say) does. Bathe, smile, be friendly and respectful, and spend freely (without being ridiculous about it) and you’ll have a grand time.
Caleb Wickham said:
Oh, you’ll be laid out alright. I’m old, bald and ’round’ and I had, ahem, a whale of a time first time round thanks to this blog. You’ll be fine. Kick up your heels!
Kal said:
Good to hear! Although maybe I will have other problems coming to Bangkok? Hopefully the current emergency will be resolved by the time I get there.
Bangkokbois said:
Well ‘resolved’ might be asking a bit much . . .
Mike said:
Some years ago I was in Bangkok and Pattya . One two occasions that I took a boy
Back to my room I found that they had deformed cocks. I believe that when they are young small shells or stones are inserted under the skin to make them bigger. Is this a common practice and how can the client find this out before taking them out.
Mike
Bangkokbois said:
Those are called fang muk – use the search box on the bottom of this page if you want to read more about them. They are way too common, epecially among the straight gogo boys. Quite upsetting to discover once you’re back in your room. Outside of chcking what he’s got there’s not much you can do to find out before you off him. The mamasan will lie. The boy will act confused rather than risk losing a cutomer.
ryoyo said:
I love your guides about gay go go bars very much.
But I have a question:
Is there any low-price gay inn or hostel around the silom and surawong road where I can have a room to off short-time with my boi? Because I can’t bring him to my 6-bed dormitory room :((
Bangkokbois said:
Bringing him to your 6 bed dormitory could be fun Ryoyo!
🙂
But yes, there are. Suriwong Hotel across the street and BBB Inn are two set up for that purpose.
Your boi should know where they are, and posibly others. If not the mamasan will.
ryoyo said:
haha, you made me think of a sixsome LOL more than I can hope. Thanks for your advice.
Dave said:
I am in my 40’s and have been coming to Bangkok for 19 years. This site is spot on and I get a kick out of the stories. I just arrived again this week and on my first night hit Soi Twighlight. I went to Dream Boys first as I’ve always liked the boys there. I had already had several beers before entering and had three while there so I was a bit buzzed. Of course there were several boys I would have taken but since it was my first night I decided to go home empty handed. On my way back to my hotel on Silom I had to pass the soi where Nature Boy is located. The alcohol had started to kick in and I was getting horny. I had never been in Nature Boy but knew of its reputation. I got pulled in and there were four boys in undies. I was pleasantly surprised that all four were very handsome. I wasn’t so drunk as to know the beer wasn’t speaking for me. I am into public sex a bit and it didn’t take long for all four boys to show me their cocks and to take mine out for me. I was the only customer at this point so it didn’t seem to be a problem that all of our dicks were out and hard. I started to suck one of them and some sanity came back to me and I said I’d go and come back tomorrow. The manager came over and said he would close the front door if I wanted to suck all the boys for 1000B each. Before you know it, I had each of the four dicks in my mouth at one time or another and two of the boys were taking turns blowing me. These boys all had nice brown bodies and very nice cocks. A few of them, maybe all, had colored contact lenses that only added to the devilness making them look like vampires which actually turned me on even more. I’m into getting oral cum shots and wasn’t disappointed. i got two loads from one of the hotties. I’ve had a lot of hot time in Thailand but this was the zaniest. I’m hard now thinking about it. I know many people are not into a place like Nature Boy, but I loved it that night.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks for sharing your story Dave.
There’s nothing like a night at Nature Boy – that’s one I’m sure you’ll remember for years. Or at least until your next visit!
bruce said:
Yes Nature boy is fun sometimes. The last time I was there the owner closed the door and we had 5 nicely shaped guys with their dicks out and all to suck, fondle, kiss and all ended up completely naked. I even had the owner cum for me. I will definitely go back.
Bangkokbois said:
Huh.
I’d have thought at Nature Boy instead of closing the door they’d just charged a cover charge.
🙂
Thaifanboy said:
i have never been to Asia but am looking forward to fulfilling some of my foot fetish fantasies. I would like to find English speaking of some caliber not perfect English to hang out with while they are barefooted. I really don’t care much about the sex I can just jack myself. Looking for smaller guys around 25. Any suggestions about places etc? Thanks and great blog.
Bangkokbois said:
The large number of Thai guys running around in flip flops everywhere in Thailand should keep you hard your entire trip.
Babylon (sauna) might be a good choice for you; depending on your age/looks you might even find a guy or two who’ll just be happy with your company.
On the other hand, this is Bangkok, Land of Dreams Cum True. Hit a bar on Soi Twilight, pick a few guys out and arrange a party for the following day. They may think you are a bit strange, but you’ll have all the naked feet you could hope for and can take that as far as your fantasies can go.
Have fun!
Martin said:
I have a couple of questions that may sound plenty stupid…but I’ll be in Bangkok for the first time in August and want to make the most out of my trip…
So, here it is: How are younger customers treated? Say guys around the age of 20-25, average looks…Is it harder to get a boy because they assume that you do not have that much money/are not willing to spend that much? Is there a chance that the mamasan will be less aggressive for the very same reason?
And a second one: After reading your (very informative and highly entertaining!!) post and the comments, I got the impression that it will be easier to find a top than a bottom. Is that really the case?
And one more: I’m thinking about staying at the Babylon. The price for the Baracks rooms seems to be very reasonable (I’ve paid more in several hostels). Google maps tells me that it is about 2km from Soi Twilight.
So um basically I can’t wait to get there and would appreciate any hints/suggestions 🙂 I’ll make sure to let you guys know about my experiences afterwards! 😉
Bangkokbois said:
No problemo Martin. I like stupid questions ‘cuz those usually match my stupid answers.
Okay, so younger customers in bars: It’s all about the money, so throw a bit around and the boys will be flocking to you. yes, older guys are viewed as possible sugar daddies, but the guys are also out for a night’s earnings and as long as you don’t act like you’ll be cheap in tipping them they’ll be happy to have you as a customer.
In my experience most bar boys are tops. But not all. And then I like masculine guys. So bottoms are not out of the question, especially if you prefer effeminate guys. If anal is important to you, ask first and be clear what you want. But be discrete about it, a boy who will bottom may not want that broadcast throughout his bar.
None of which may matter since you are staying at Babylon. You may just find all the sex you want there without having to hit Soi Twilight. It may even be free. Or at least not as expensive.
Feel free to ask any other specific questions you may have.
And have a great time, you’re gonna love Bangkok!
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Martin said:
Thanks a lot for your answers! I actually prefer masculine tops so your answer has made me even more…”exited” 😉
I thought that Babylon might be a good place to stay since I really like to go to the sauna as such (so not just for the action but for the heat, sweating and such; action is a big plus of course 😉 )…Furthermore, I assumed that it wouldn’t be no problem to bring a companion to the hotel room, since that’s what it’s all about there…and one gets 2 complimentary sauna passes per day – so I assume the companion might get in without the usual extra fee and all the extra fuss.
I read a most of your blog entries during the last few days – and boy, was that informative as well as entertaining!!
Bangkokbois said:
Mahalos Martin.
And yeah, in fact I think the rooms at Babylon come with a companion. So good choice!