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My last night in Bangkok and it was time again to hit one of my favorite gay bars, Tawan. Love those muscles! Tawan gets a lot of bad press on the internet, or I guess I should say the guys at Tawan get a lot of bad press. From exorbitant fees to wham, bang, thank you mam sir encounters, to promising the moon and delivering close to nothing, I read again and again about customers’ unhappy happy endings after offing a guy from Tawan. So there’s got to be some truth there as the complaints are just too frequent for it to be otherwise.
But my experiences have always been good. And I’ve been visiting Tawan for two decades now. Couldn’t count the number of guys I’ve offed from there and never once have I been unhappy with the result. I think, perhaps, when expectations are not met, the blame maybe isn’t quite as one-sided as most would have you believe.
First off, you have to realize that the majority of guys working at Tawan are straight. Not that there isn’t a certain fluidity in what a Thai straight guy will do, and even more so when he’s working at a gay gogo bar. But in addition to being straight, the majority of guys at Tawan are men. Seems obvious, but I’m not talking gender here but rather the meaning of the word to a Thai. And a ‘man’ doesn’t bottom. So if you are offing a guy from Tawan thinking you’re going to get a night of bouncing on a butt of steel . . . It’s not likely to happen. But he said he does everything? Well, he does. But not that. Because he is a ‘man’. And you certainly should have been able to read that into what he said. Thais are notorious for saying things by not saying them.
A lot of customers want nothing more than to touch. Muscle worship. Many do not need, or want, the guy to do a thing. And a short, short-time is fine with a lot of guys. Many are willing to pay big bucks either out of generosity or due to a mistaken belief that you have to pay more than the going rate to a guy from Tawan. So then you come along, expecting ‘everything’ and an overnight stay . . . how the hell is he suppose to know that? Far too often customers do not take the time to lay out explicitly what they want and instead assume the evening will just go their way. Not gonna happen.
Yes, there are some guys working there who will do nothing more than get naked and let you touch them. But if you ask them up front, they’ll be honest about that. And yes, if you ask a guy at Tawan “how much?” He’ll probably say 3,000 baht. Uh, do you pay the quoted rate when you hop into a tuk tuk? Same, same. (Btw, this is Thailand: ‘how much’ is up to you and should never be a topic of conversation. If a guy at any bar quotes you a fee- especially if you didn’t ask – save yourself the money and save yourself from a rotten experience. Take a pass.)
Are you going to be able to convince one of the stars to bottom for you? Hell, no. Those guys routinely get multiple offs on any given night. And most of their customers are ‘easy.’ In, out, top dollar, all for having to do little. Nor are you going to get anywhere by being obvious; a quiet approach is needed because if the guy will bottom, it’s the last thing he wants his mates to know. I’ve topped several guys from Tawan. And I don’t think the percentage of those who will bottom is really any lower than at the other bars – at least among the bar boys who are ‘men’. As far as having him smoke you, I’ve never offed a guy from Tawan who wouldn’t (come to think about it, I’ve never asked a potential offee if he smokes and got a negative reply either).
As far as quality goes, any guy you take back to your hotel room is going to perform better if he likes you. So what are you doing to see that he has some fun? It’s no secret that having fun is on the top of the list for most Thais. If the guy is enjoying himself being around you, when it comes time to get down to business, your business will be much more gratifying.
Mmmm, that was a major digression! I was gonna tell you about a guy I offed from Tawan, and the confusion, mystery, and eventual friendship we shared. So it was late October and I was staying at La Residence, just down the street from Tawan (‘just’ being several long blocks). I’d only hit Tawan once earlier on this trip and figured it would be the perfect finish. Among the usual crowd of body builders on stage was a guy I hadn’t seen before. Kinda young, built but not buffed. And he had a great smile. So I invited him over for a drink.
Turns out he didn’t speak much English. I mean even less than normal. But an expressive little sucker nonetheless and with lots of repetition and pantomiming we managed to carry on a conversation. Aptly so, his name was “Lek” which means small in Thai. And it was his third night at the bar. He had a great smile and an infectious laugh so I offed him, without even bothering to check to see what he would or wouldn’t do as I usually do. He slipped into his street clothes, we left, stopping for a snack at a street stall, and then headed back to the hotel.
When we got in the room, he kneeled down, untied, and then took my shoes off. That was kinda sweet. Then he kicked his off, followed by his pants and shirt. I love when those guys strip down to the shorts upon entering the room! Sitting on the edge of the bed, he started laughing pointing at my feet and then his. Took a bit before I got it was the difference in out feet – me having grown up wearing shoes, him having not – his were fat, flat, and spread out. Extremely inquisitive, he grilled me on the English words for most everything in the room and managed to get across some of his life story. We laughed a lot. Not sure how we got to that part but at one point he was splayed out on the bed, jokingly dry humping the mattress and moaning “Oh, My Buddha!”. It was hilarious.
Several hours later, he hopped into the shower and came out naked, drying himself off. Nice. I cleaned up, too and then met him in bed. Good kisser. No problem hugging and just rolling about together. And then he gave me an incredible massage. Including walking on my back. While up until the massage we’d still been cracking each other up, once he started the massage it was all business. Good business. And when the time seemed right, he went down on me without me having to ask or direct him to do so. What he lacked in skill he made up for in enthusiasm. In any case, this wasn’t suppose to be a porn blow by blow so suffice to say we eventually both shot our loads, cleaned up, and then he fell asleep cuddled in my arms. (And no, no anal. I asked, he did a short negative shake of his head and I let it pass).
The next morning we had to get up early as my plane left at 7am. Outside of the hotel he waited on the sidewalk as I got into a taxi. I looked back to wave as we took off and he stood there waving, with tears in his eye. No, really!
So three months later, I’m back in Bangkok and immediately head to Tawan to see if Lek was there. OK. Stop for a sec. At the time I didn’t remember his name; I have to use it here to keep this story straight (so to speak). As I was ushered to a chair I saw him on the other side of the bar. When he got on stage we made eye contact, he smiled, and I waved him over. Still cute. But a bit wider than before. Seemed he was on his way to beefing up as he’d previously indicated he wanted to do. Didn’t waste a lot of time at the bar and we were soon back at my hotel, the Swiss Park over on Sukhumvit Soi 11.
Same kneeling and removal of my shoes as last time. Same infectious laugh. And again we hit it off well. Well enough that I offed him for a three night run. I had an incredibly great time with him during the day. His English had improved somewhat. He tried teaching me some Thai this time around. We spent one afternoon at Lumpini Park feeding ducks at his suggestion. And then over to the outdoor gym there for him to exercise for a while. And this time around I caught his name, So. Huh? So? Okay, changing nicknames isn’t that unusual for these guys and I didn’t remember clearly that it had been Lek last time anyway.
In bed, I thought, wow. What a difference 3 months makes! From slightly unskilled in giving head, he’d progressed to slipping a condom on me with his mouth. And as for bottoming, it wasn’t like he was swooning with desire, but certainly was a willing enough participant. Three days ended too quickly and I once again headed home. (Uh, no tears this time).
Now it’s June and I’m back in Bangkok again. And back at Tawan for my muscle guy. He was on stage as I walked in. I was led to a chair to the right at stage side and as I walked past I touched what seemed like a new tattoo on his arm, smiled at him and sat down. He immediately hopped off the stage and joined me. Big Hug. Bigger Kiss. And then he nestled himself under my arm and relaxed. Ahhhhhh.
So we’re sitting there talking with him cuddled up in my arms and I’m kinda looking around the bar. It was crowded that night and as one customer moved out of the way, directly where I was looking sat So. Or Lek. Or whatever his name was. WTF??? I looked down at Lek/So. Yup. It was him. Then looked across the room at Lek/So. Yup, it was him. The one who wasn’t in my arms saw me, got a big smile on his face, and came over.
Turns out they were brothers. The one in my arms being the older of the two and also being my original off. The other, whose name really was So was the guy I’d spent three nights with on my previous trip. The three of us had a great laugh over the whole thing, and then I took them both back to my hotel and fucked the living daylights out of them. (Sorry, I got carried away). Shit! Decisions! I ended up offing #1 for a few days and again had a wonderful time. But #1 still wasn’t interested in being fucked. Ah, well.
Next trip I’d considered switching to So, for obvious reasons. But he had cultivated a boyfriend by then (that’d be a regular customer) and was booked solid. So I spent a few days and nights with #1, Lek, who had now become Nut. He’d been working out, doubled his muscle size, and ‘Lek’ was no longer an appropriate name. I was staying at Windsor Suites on that trip. Second night together, I tried out the possibility of him bottoming once again and this time around, he laughed and said, “I never” and promptly sat himself on my dick. LOL. He didn’t last long, but I liked that he at least was willing to give it a try.
So (that’d be #2) disappeared from the bar, spending some time in Boston with the boyfriend. I offed Nut several times on subsequent trips over the years; at the very least stopped in to say Hi. His English improved greatly and he bulked up to an even higher degree. Which meant he looked amazing, the downside being he was now too large to be walking on my back during massage sessions. I spent one New Year’s Eve with him and his youngest brother (not in the business), during which Nut admitted to me his family was from Burma which, when his bro found out I knew was totally aghast ( guess this is a matter of some shame in Thailand). Eventually I was introduced to his older brother (who ended up working at Tawan, too.) And no, I never went for the trifecta.
As we’d grown to be friends over the years I learned a lot from him about how the bars operate and how the boys think. By now Nut was often scoring triple offs in a night and he explained that most customers didn’t even want him to cum (making the three nighters possible). Just talk and touch, is the way he put it. We started spending days together when I was in town, no offing, no sex, just companionship.
Last year I stopped in Tawan and Nut was there. He’d just got back from his annual trip home to Burma and was exhausted. He asked if he could cuddle up and grab a quick nap (seems he’d get in trouble sleeping on the job, but it’d be Okay if he was with a customer). Before he nodded off, he said, “I remember first time I meet you. You leave at 5 in the morning. I stand on sidewalk and cry.”
Blew me away. Sure, I remembered that, but my numbers are a hell of a lot lower than his. That five years and countless customers latter he still remembered that time, and with details . . . Amazing Thailand!
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Tawan-ator said:
Great post! I’m a Tawan lover as well. I think the Burma brothers are not working at Tawan any more… Last I went in February, Nut was not to be seen.
Tawan hurray!!!
muscle42 said:
Heard about TAWAN club but have yet to visit the place myself. Thanks dropdead for the insights.
I would suppose most of the bodybuilders are straight, and it does not matter if they have a big or a small dick. Muscle worship and touching is more the name of the game.
dropdeadguys said:
Yup, almost all are straight, but then you’d be surprised at wahat they are willing to do. Hope you go check the guys out and have a great time!
caleb wickham said:
I’ve always been a bit iffy about group settings: who is doing what to whom and in what sequence, but my last experience in Tawan (a week ago) things worked themselves out rather well with the boys… er… men from Tawan. In fact, some film directors could learn a thing or two from these lads. Starting with a ‘four hands’ massage, they rotated positions and changed actions, three at any one time, while one went to the loo or took time to arouse themselves appropriately, then the next, and so on.
Not just I learned a thing or two. At least one straight sex worker learnt a little more about himself and extended his limits without complaint. The tableau de menage á cinq ended up with my left thumb up his arse, my right hand jacking another’s whopping pork sword, my mouth occupied in rotation and given a much-needed manual relief for my part. They each mopped up as they went, which sent a thrill up my spine spurring me on to the next, and voilá, a fabby night was rung in. By morning I was too sore to talk.
I met three of these boys from my last time in Bangkok. I was warmly greeted in the club by those who recognised me, and was joined by those I knew. We went to dinner first (it’s expensive feeding body builders), had a couple of bottles of wine, dropped in to the 7/11 for nibbles and mouthwash, two more bottles of wine, and some towlettes (?), then headed to my room. We talked about their lives, families and children; politics, wealth distribution inequalities and the encroachment of China into Laos and Cambodia; all the while sitting around in our jocks, just as any group of men would. The second night – by arrangement – they met me in the lobby of Tawantarn, took me to a Lao restaurant and afterwards another blokes-sitting-around-gabbing session eventuated. But this time there were six; the most gorgeous of them all, Outhai, was absent the previous night, but joined us despite not working at Tawan anymore. Yummy.
(Cost a fortune: just under $4,000 for two nights. Okay, so divide by eleven for a ‘per unit’ cost, but these guys were magic… again.)
Bangkokbois said:
Pictures damnit! I Need pictures!
🙂
Dunno but I can’t think of anything more heart warming than walking into a bar and being greeted by the guys like an old friend.
Okay, maybe scoring 4 of them for the night. But that greeting has got to be a close second.
caleb wickham said:
Yes, it was comfy. Even the Bong Thom (Kh., ‘big boss’) made a point of bee-lining across the space to greet me. And to be joined by Outhai, who no longer works at Tawan, was truly nice. Still, it was business as usual.
Gerrie said:
Best guide in the world read everything several times before i ventured to Thailand all the first timers guide etc etc but lived in Tawan more my style and unreal do as u say and all is well
dropdeadguys said:
Thanks Gerrie!
Glad the guides were of help!
And glad you had a great time in Thailand, too.
Daniel said:
Cool post! I have been to Tawan at least 3 times in two years. My last was January with him >> http://bangkokbois.wordpress.com/2011/08/04/eye-candy-a-familiar-face/
He is such a soft spoken darling. From Issan.
Smooth in bed too. haha
dropdeadguys said:
Thanks Daniel!
Lucky man.
M’s a hottie. And those soft speaking ones are the guys to wacth out for.
🙂
John Sivorn said:
I have just returned form Bangkok. I discovered at the start of mt second week. I met a nice guy there and took him “off” 6 nights. The guys are handsome and yes they are straight which does make a difference. But it’s more than possible to really enjoy the difference.
Hope to see the guys soon.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks for your comment John, and congrats on having enjoyed your trip. Straight or not, you are correct: with the right attitude any guy from a bar can be a lot of fun to be around.
glenh said:
Great to read your story. I spent time with So (the one in your photo) about 4 years ago and have very fond memories of him. I will be visiting Tawan again soon but doubt I will ever be able to find someone there as nice as him. He is a wonderful guy. Thanks for sharing your story and bringing back nice memories.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Glen, he was a sweet guy. But Tawan has always attracted nice men; I hope you meet another one on your trip.
Satin said:
I would like to go this bar with my wife, are they allowed Couples?
Bangkokbois said:
Yes Satin, men, women, and/or couples are all welcomed at Tawan. Most of the guys working their are straight, so if you decide to take one home with you he’ll probably enjoy having your wife as part of the evening’s entertainment.
Satin said:
Thanks, what is the right to be there to see their shows? Are they decent or wild? How exactly their show runs?
Bangkokbois said:
Tawan’s shows are at 10ish and midnightish nightly. The size of the audience has lots to do with how long the show is and what acts are included. Weekend nights are best, larger crowd, more show.
Usually they start with a pose-down, and then porgress through acts showing more and more skin, more and more sex. Many midnight shows end in a chuck wow contest with a half a dozen of the guys masturbating to see who comes first.
Satin said:
Hi, I went last Saturday with my wife and had a great time there. Thanks
1. Are there any other such good clubs in BKK or Pattaya?
2. Do you know any clubs in BKK or pattaya where live sex shows (Male & Female, not ping-pong shows) runs?
Bangkokbois said:
Great to hear Satin.
There are numerous more bars on Soi Twilight, and in Pattaya those in and around Boyztown would probably fill your needs. None are on par with Tawan as far as the muscle guys go though. If I recall correctly Pink Panther in Patpong has male/female sex acts, but I’ve never been in there ‘cuz I’m really not interested in fish.
🙂
saa said:
Hi, i’m straight, but wanted have gay experience. So if i choose massage in Tawan, Muscle Man will do massage? ‘cuz I’m really wanted have massage from Muscle Man. Advise me…
Bangkokbois said:
Yes, Saa any one of the muscle studs at Tawan will give you the type of massage you want. It’s a good idea to tell the guy you pick what it is you want – they tend to be intuitive but are not mind readers. You can then take him to your hotel, or use the adjacent massage place (you’ll have to pay extra for use of a room). But if you want a muscle guy, off him from the bar, not Tawan’s massage shop – it’s mostly twinky guys employed in their massage operation.
saa said:
Thank you, Can you suggest me any other massage places filled with Muscle Men? I do not want to take them into my hotel room, just have naughty fun at massage place. How about Hotel Ambassador? Suggest me nice Muscle Man massage places.
Bangkokbois said:
Try Hero on Soi 11. It’s not far from the Ambassador (the hotel does offer massages in your room, but there is no guarantee that you’ll have a happy ending).
Caleb Wickham said:
Also, I saw, at Nature Boys. Dear me, it was visceral, and the proximity – within the cosy space – er, stimulating… for all concerned. I admire the spectrum of sexual behaviour but, jings, this was up-front and personal.
Caleb Wickham said:
Hmmm. Must do more research. A single event does not prove anything, except the propensity of my retinas to retain such a datum event.
Bangkokbois said:
Yes, in the interest of research you must visit again.
Bangkokbois said:
Nature Boy gives ‘up close and personal’ a whole new meaning. Unfortunately that holds true when you are not the only customer in the bar too.
tim said:
and they say romance is dead 🙂
Wayne said:
I really enjoyed reading your articles. I plan to go to Thailand soon and would like to have a nice and tender experience with a muscle boy. [I am a total bottom, so things shouldn’t be a problem on that end. ;)] But I am concerned about the cost. I do NOT want to pay so little as to be insulting, but I do not want to get ripped off either. I want a boy who will stay the night and cuddle. Could you help me out with some info on this?
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Wayne. I know a lot of guys are shy about discussing what they want to do with a guy up front, but if anal is important to you then you should let him know before you agree to the off. Shouldn’t be a problem, but he may need to get a little chemical assistance to give you the full experience and talking with him first will let him do that. It’s always good to let the guy know what he’s in for anyway, it takes some of the concern out of the evening for him and knowing what you want will help him make sure you have a good time. Um, ditto on the long-time/over night part – let him know you want him to stay over up front. Some guys have to get home to their wife and can’t sleep over.
Tip-wise, not including any drinks you buy and the off fee, 2,000 baht is still the norm. Yes, even at Tawan. 2,500 is gracious without over paying and you’ll have a good rep next time you walk into the bar. If he is one of the small handful of stars you may have to go a bit higher, but then he probably won’t agree to long-time anyway ‘cuz those guys can get multiple offs in a night.
Hope you have a grand time!
Suntan said:
Tawan is great …the guys have told me they get a bit fed up with keeping their bodies in great shape only to find they have to off with very old guys ….even though they pay well the Tawan guys often want a bit of a change from the oldies. Some leave Tawan and you can contact them direct. I phoned one and he asked about my body and said if I was not as stated he would not even come in the room ! He arrived, was everything he said and walked past me taking off his shirt ! We put a plastic sheet on the bed for the oil massage, stripped each other and oiled each other up and he started a great massage on me and then I thought “hey I am not getting to enjoy these muscles” so changed and gave him a massage. We had a fantastic time and afterwards had a drink. He was from Isan. By the way the price varies a lot of how YOU look too as it was nowhere near Baht 3000 + + + . At Tawan best to pay for the drinks as you go and not left till you depart …. Last time I was there I was asked several times for Baht 200 by the guys just to sit beside me as well. That was new.
Lately I have been going to the massage places on Silom and also off Sukhumvit nr Soi Cowboy opposite the TaiPan Hotel. About Baht 350 for 1 hour / 500 for 2 hours oil massage and you get to chose the masseur … and a Baht 500 tip. These guys are from Isan and many as muscular as Tawan these days and I can guarantee a good time. Love Apsara on Silom – very honest, clean and good plus a good massage LOL. Get out and explore Bangkok as there so great experiences away from Patpong area…… hey could write a book on experiences driving around Thailand from chefs on deserted beaches to fishing boat captains ….now theres serious real muscle !
Not into fems or trans so str8 fine by me and life can be good without anal.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks for your comment and a lot of great info Suntan. I’ve no doubt bar boys generally prefer a younger customer over an older one, though I think your demeanor has just as much to do with it. Sounds like you had a great time. I can’t remember anyone mentioning Apsara for massage before, so thanks for the recommendation!
Ross said:
I do not even know how I ended up here, but I thought this
post was great. I don’t know who you are but definitely you’re going to a famous blogger if you aren’t already 😉 Cheers!
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Ross.
And thanks for taking the time to leave a message. As for how you got here, it’s the destination and not the journy that matters anyway. Oh, wait . . .
Mark said:
I am planning a trip in the spring with my partner to Bangkok. We are both under 30 and are very active, and looking for a variety of services while there. We would be interested in hiring a car and driver to see the country, but wanted to mix that with some of the services you describe above. Are there “concierges” in town who are able to help set up a driver who is also attractive and willing to both take us to a secluded beach, and also join in the skinny dip? Along with sightseeing.
THanks
Bangkokbois said:
Hi Mark.
Working backwards – Considering that for the price of a beer you can watch two guys fuck on stage in Bangkok, it’s surprising how modest Thais are about nudity. It’s not uncommon for a moneyboy to tie a towel around his waist to disrobe and keep it there until safely tucked under the bed sheets. So don’t expect to find any Thai wanting to join in skinny dipping. The chance of your finding a secluded beach or one where nudity is okay are slim to none anyway.
There are a few travel companies based in Bangkok that cater to gay men where you can hire a car and driver and a guide. The guide will know all the gay places to go to. The driver drives. There are also a few freelance gay guides; they guide – they may arrange transpo for you but getting behind the wheel isn’t part of their job description. Niether is dipping with the customers, skinny or otherwise.
I know of one driver who also fills in as a guide and can help plan your itinerary but since this sounds like your first visit you really need to think about what you want to see. You may find it better to try Bangkok for the city life, Chiang Mai for the Northern/Hills laid back lifestyle, and a southern beach area like Phuket for the postcard perfect beaches . . . and fly to each destination. In-country air fares are cheap. If you do want to take to the roads instead, drop me back a note and I’ll give ya the contact info for the driver I know of.
musclelover said:
Great blog! So very happy to find it.I keep hearing mixed things about Tawan & how certain times of the year are better than others at the club.We’re planning a trip for Jan & February.Would you say that’s a good time to hit Tawan?
Bangkokbois said:
Glad you found my blog too. As for Tawan, it’s always worth checking out but can be hit or miss. Even one night to the next. Jan/early Feb is still high season, so you should do okay, but even then some of the ‘stars’ only show up on Friday and Saturday nights. So if you are going to make a new friend, go early. (And go often. ‘Cuz you can never have enough friends.)
Joachim said:
First off, great blog and really useful tips/info!
I’ve been to Tawan twice over the past year and really like the place. I offed a guy both times (3,000 Bht tip plus 1,300 bar fee). The last time, I got the guy’s number and saw him again the next night and we had a (I think) a good time. During my last Bkk visit, I called but never heard back from him. It’s possible he stopped working, was busy or found a better offer but I’m also wondering if there’s a protocol (are the guys ‘allowed’ to make arrangements directly) or are you supposed to make arrangements with the bar and pay the fee each time?
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Joachim.
That’s a touchy question. Officially, if you originally met him at the bar you owe an off fee anytime the two of you hook up. Consider it a ‘finder’s fee’. If he gets caught booking customers outside of the arrangement he can get into trouble. BUT. It’s probably safe to play it by ear – if he is concerned about the bar fine getting paid he’ll usually tell you that you need to drop by the bar and pay it. If not, no problemo. And I certainly wouldn’t volunteer to do so if he fails to bring it up. In any case, his not returning your call probably had nothing to do with that.
And just to clarify – the 1,300 bar fee included drinks? ‘Cuz Tawan’s off fee should be 500-600 baht.
Joachim said:
Thanks for the reply. No, the fee didn’t include the few beers I had…good to know it should be 500-600 Bht…now it’s kinda tricky if I go back. Do I try to negotiate to lower the bar fee -which I think is normally a no-no? Also, is 3,000 Bht still a reasonable tip (think your last comment on this was a few years ago?). Thx!
Bangkokbois said:
Ask out front what the off fee is so that you know in advance. Usually trying to negotiate that charge is a no-no since you then come off looking like a cheap ass. But if the captain tries to charge you more than you already confirmed the fee to be, there’s nothing wrong with telling him what it is really supposed to be (then you don’t come off looking like a rube).
The usual tip is still between 2,000 and 3,000, with the higher being based on your generosity, how hot and in demand the guys is, and whether it’s for a long-time or short-time off. But there’s nothing wrong with tipping 3,000 regardless – it’s still in line and you aren’t acting a fool. Plus your guy will be happy with you in case you want to off him again.
Joachim said:
Good idea and will try to ask out front as you suggested…you know, Tawan should actually hire you as their operations/protocol/PR guy 😉
Bangkokbois said:
🙂
And I’d work for trade too!
Marc said:
Hi,
I’m staying at Anantara River Side and will be checking out Tawan Bar this week. Should I book a hotel near Tawan Bar when I find my muscleGod or can I take him to my hotel, even if it takes about 20/30 minutes one way?
Do you know if there are guys at Tawan who are wearing tight shirts/deep V-necks and sexy pants?
Thanks for your help!
Bangkokbois said:
Hi Marc.
You can take him back to your hotel, no problemo.
If you want to get to it quicker, there are short-time rooms availble in Patpong. He’ll know where.
And sorry, but that sounds way overdressed for the boys at Tawan!
Have fun!
Alie said:
could you make a list of a hotel near tawan where they also request “tips” if you’re staying there.
I’m staying at D Varee Bally, are they also asking for another tips ?
Daddy_lover said:
I went to tawan quite late on a Sunday night (about 12.30 am). When I entered, the guys at the entrance were very friendly and asked me to go in. I was the only customer and oh man, I immediately fell in love with tawan. All of the men were so beefy, muscular and hot. Some not so muscular, some are mature. I love mature, muscle, daddy-looking men. I just peeped at the men and their bodies. They know when you peep them, so don’t be shy. But if they come to you, just wave or say no. If you really like him, just let him sit beside you. Most of them are busy with their phone. Some get friendly and shook my hand; strong hands. Don’t be tricked, they are just trying to impress you. Some like to smile at you but just give them a short smile back or they will come to you, whether you want it or not. Some will walk pass you, flexing and showing off their muscles. Just enjoy the sight and laugh at their attempt to “flirt” you. As always, just play along and have fun. You have to think that these guys are straight and they just want you to off them. I was informed by the mamasan there was no show and the club is closing soon. I chose my man; a beefy, a little mature looking, muscular moustacheod guy who also had a puffy ass. Offed him (forgot his name), and he mentioned minimum tip was 2000 baht and so I asked him if he can do “anything” he nodded. I knew it wasn’t true because they will not bottom, but its ok no problem. So, we went back to my hotel which is 20 minutes away (I realized this was such a good time to be friendly with him, he allowed me to put my arm around him, on his leg and talk). When we reached the hotel, I bought him some food and condom. We bathed, separately. And when we were ready, I asked him if he can do BJ, HJ, he said yes. But no bottoming him. Ok, thats fine. I started by admiring his body and muscles, he seems to like it. Then we start with HJ, BJ and even 69, ass kissing, massaging and licking his nipples. I didn’t really like those things, but we did it anyway. Finally, I asked him to fuck me. He agreed and put on his condom, tried at least 3 times to penetrate me but failed. I think its because I never bottomed before so asshole really tight. So, he said sorry, and after more kissing and touching his entire body, I blew my cum on his belly. I asked him to cum after that, which he did. After that, we cleaned ourselves and he left after he took shower. I paid him 2000 baht and another 150 baht (he asked) for taxi. I believe he was with me in the room for at least 1 hour. I had fun but actually regretted we didn’t really have much chemistry. I should have been more chatty and connect with them but I didn’t. Will come again definitely and try other muscle dads.
Joe said:
I have gone to Tawan many times over many years. They are very upfront of about what they offer. But also if you just want to see the guys, have one sit with you and chat and cuddle a bit, It’s ok. If they have another gig, they will go upstairs get dressed in street clothes and leave, often on their motorbikes (a fun experience in itself). The muscle guys themselves seem to like like the “cabaret”, a brief show with “lady boys” who are considered artists. I have found Tawan consistent over the decades and a pleasant place to have a beer or more. Some of the guys are prize-winning body builders who are close to their families (their parents and siblings). Others are more wiry, beautiful but not body builders. Most don’t speak English well so you have to be prepared to have limited conversations. I think it is an unusual place because it is, for lack of a better word, macho, and often the guys are mature and many are “working guys”. I don’t know what they do otherwise but it seems that Tawan is not their only gig. I like the place very much. I usually stay at La Residence about a ten minute walk on Suriwong. But Tarntawan is also a very mice place, a little fancier and low key. But for some reason we are not talking about Babylon, a nice daytime place.