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Interested in improving your sex life? Forget about that little blue pill or travelling thousands of miles to where the men are more available, or at least more purchasable. According to the University of Chicago, all you really need to do is start smoking and drinking like a fish. And if you want to achieve Casanova status, learn to appreciate jazz while you’re at it.
You’d think that with smokers becoming the social pariahs that they are these days, and the steady puritanical swing toward less frequent imbibing, people who indulge in either activity would find it more difficult to find a suitable partner to bed. But according to the university’s General Social Survey database, a rich and reliable source covering the demographics and trends surrounding American sexual activity, the exact opposite is true. The survey says that smokers are 10 percent more sexually active than nonsmokers. And drinkers are 20 percent more sexually active than nondrinkers. According to the survey, by lighting up a ciggie and downing a shot or two you are 200 percent more likely to get laid than those who do neither. Do so at a jazz club and your odds for an orgasm just went up by another twenty percent.
The database, collected by social scientists working with the university since 1989, compiles the sexual activities and preferences of over 10,000 USA-based respondents. The scientists say that sex is universally cited by those participating in their study as American’s favorite activity. It’s just not one indulged in as often by those who detest drinking and smoking. It’s not surprisingly that those who practice abstinence is some areas of their lives find it carries over into their sex life too. Saints seldom have as much fun as sinners do. Attitude goes a long way in whether or not you are going to get laid at any given time.
Not that your attitude is always what’s in play. Whether it is the cause or result, smokers who drink while nodding to a jazzy beat before heading off for yet another orgasm, often have a poor attitude about others. Not that that stops them from getting laid. The General Social Survey finds that for many Americans, a robust sex life goes along with a pessimistic view of other people; those who engage in sexual activity more frequently are more likely than average to say they do not regard other people as fair or trustworthy. But that could just be the alcohol talking.
According to the study, sexual activity is highest among people who are most likely to seek adventure. And the more sexually active people are the more likely they are to report frequent contact with friends rather than relatives, and the more likely they are to go out to bars. Susan Block, author of The Ten Commandments of Pleasure: Erotic Keys to a Healthy Sexual Life, says she is not surprised by the results of the survey. “Drinking is one of the few genuine aphrodisiacs,” she says. “It lowers your inhibitions, so people who have been drinking have sex with people they would never have sex with if they weren’t drinking.” Being in Pattaya has the same effect.
Block also notes that people who smoke these days are risk-takers, and are well aware of nicotine’s lethal powers. She says that unlike with alcohol, smoking is not an aphrodisiac but feeds their drive for adventure. It appears to also feed their drive to get laid.
As for why being a jazz aficionado will get you laid more often I haven’t a clue. But then did you really think humming Justin Bieber’s latest tune was gonna make you attractive as a bedmate to anyone other than a lesbian?
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Glenn said:
the drinking thing certainly makes sense. All those drunk college kids hooking up all over… But unless the smokers are all hooking up with each other, it seems like most non-smokers have a pretty strong aversion to the smell. Or maybe I am just speaking for myself. 🙂
Bangkokbois said:
As many people who are vehemently opposed to smokers as there are, when I smoked I never had a problem getting laid. Maybe if you get enough alcohol in them they no longer care.
ChristianPFC said:
The boy with the saxophone is cute – but the crab ladder is unacceptable.
Bangkokbois said:
One man’s crab ladder is another man’s treasure trail . . .
xiandarkthorne said:
Treasure trails….mmmm….other men might hunt for treasure with maps, compasses and GPS but I prefer to follow treasure trails with my tongue.
And me being Chinese and all, I have no problem sticking a nice, tasty hairy crab claw in my mouth, never mind the size of the crab…but then I was born slutty.
Bangkokbois said:
One man’s snack is another man’s STD?
ChristianPFC said:
I have told others (blog or forum owners, editors) that I think smoking is a disgusting habit and a first step towards a smoke-free world would be to stop publishing pictures of people smoking, and to ban smoking from films. So I tell you as well that your blog would be a nicer placer if there were no pictures of smokers in action.
Bangkokbois said:
Huh.
Exceptionally obese people disgust me, so I think the world would be a better place if their images were banned from the internet too.
Oh, and drinking is bad for you, so let’s get rid of all the alcohol related pix while we are at it.
We can all agree that fast food is bad for you, so enough with those places showing up on-line.
Coke and Pepsi need to be banned too.
And I’m not a big fan of Guatemalans – time to prohibit their images showing up in public, and while we’re at it it’s time for Rush Limbaugh, Nancy Grace, and Hannity to disappear from the web.
There are many who’d like to see those disgusting gays not be pictured any longer, and many gays who feel the same about drag queens – time to get rid of them all too.
Guys with chest hair and guys without both have their detractors, best to dump them both rather than choose sides . . .
And don’t get me started on pictures of the Kardashians.
Xian Darkthorne said:
I can’t stand prissy-pussies, either. And as for the Kardashians, I don’t think their pictures should be banned. Think of all the ladyboy fans out there!
Bangkokbois said:
Granted, the Kardashians was a bad choice.
Rob is such a little ball of neurotic gayness that he’s adorkable. I’d do him. Once.
xiandarkthorne said:
The only good thing about those awful trannies’ un-reality show, and you’d only do him ONCE? Well, okay, I admit he’s not to everyone’s taste but if I tasted him once, I suspect I’d have to go back for seconds at least before I made up my mind.
Bangkokbois said:
I put Rob in the same category as heroin.
You need to taste it once for the experience.
Going back for seconds is a dangerous move that could easily lead you into hell.
xiandarkthorne said:
I know what you mean about dangerous seconds. But then what’s life without a little adventure?
Bangkokbois said:
Have you seen Rob’s ass?!
There’s nothing little about that adventure!
xiandarkthorne said:
And here I was thinking you liked larger than life escapades. I was prompted to look him up and I found that pic of him snoozing with his face in his bro-in-law’s lap…gives a new meaning to family ties, doesn’t it?
Bangkokbois said:
Yeah he’s got a major thing for Odom. Figures he’d be a size queen.
wordschat said:
I’ve always loved good SAX. Kidding aside jazz while it does have vocal singers is best for the instrumental aspect. It can jive as much as rock band and have a rhythm that moves you like nothing cam especially a tenor sax. It’s radiates through your body. No wonder it is a sexual stimulant or music to get in the mood to ….
Bangkokbois said:
Yup, good sax is hard to beat.
Musicians often refer to the sax as a bitch whistle.