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Gay bars in the U.S. are pretty much all the same. The decor may be different, the type of clientele may change from one bar to the next, some may have a backroom, but basically they are all the same; you know exactly what to expect when you enter regardless of which city or state you are in. The gay gogo bars in Bangkok too are more alike than they are different from each other. But there is a difference, possibly subtle enough that a first time visitor may not notice. That first timer who forms an opinion of what gay gogo bars in Bangkok have to offer off of a single visit to one bar may find it an erroneous one. And if he then decides to visit a different bar he may be pleasantly surprised, or equally disappointed or amazed, that the new bar has little to do with the one he first visited. While every bar in Bangkok catering to the touri crowd operates similarly and offers a similar product, there is a vast difference in how they do so.
There are, to my way of thinking, three types of gay gogo bars in Bangkok, scattered around the Patpong area. There are gogo bars that cater to the local crowd too, but those are far removed from the regular touri haunts and are not places most occasional visitors to Bangkok find themselves in. Most gay touri do however find themselves visiting the gogo bars around Silom. And if it is your first time, which bar you choose can make a big difference in how much fun you will have there.
The majority of bars are on Soi Twilight. They too differ slightly from one to the next, but the experience you have in any is similar to what you can expect from the others. Pricing for drinks and off fees may be slightly more or less depending on the bar, the stable of boys may or may not be to your liking if there is a specific type of guy you like, and the aggressiveness of the mamasans may be higher in one bar than another, but the basics are the same.
On Twilight each of the gogo bars has a stable of bar boys from fem to masculine with most offering at least one guy who is muscular. All put on two shows nightly between which the bar boys take turns rotating on stage in their underwear in groups. During the shows the guys perform in various states of undress (and hardness) moving from semi-nudity to nudity to full on sex acts. Some bars are larger than the others, some have a larger stable of bar boys, and some get a bit more raunchy. But they all basically offer the same product under the same entertainment format.
As do what I consider the second type of gogo bar in Bangkok. I call them specialty bars – there are only two. Tawan, about a four block walk from Soi Twilight down Suriwong, offers muscle boys. And across from Twilight and down a small soi is Jupiter, which tends to have taller, lighter-skinned bar boys. The kind of guys who make it in the modeling world in Bangkok. Or would have liked to but just didn’t quite make the cut. You usually pay a bit more for drink and off costs at the speciality bars, and while not necessarily true there is the belief that the guys at those bars expect larger tips too. The truth is the guys there usually do get larger tips but that in most cases is due to the customers believing the boys are worth a premium.
The third type of bar I call the sleaze joints, though I’m beginning to refer to the area where they are located as Little Pattaya. Their numbers are quickly dwindling, but this small scattering of bars can be found just a bit further along the soi where Tawan is located. They are small, cheap, dingy places where pretty much anything goes. Drinks, off fees, and acceptable tips are all cheaper in these places than in the other bars around Silom because the boys are too. They don’t really have shows unless you consider the sight of a 65-year-old fat farang customer getting blown a show.
Screwboys is a world unto itself, a conglomeration of both the standard gogo bars on Soi Twilight and, though larger, the sleaze bars of Little Pattaya. Being located within the official boundaries of Patpong, it can be, and often is, open past the mandatory closing time of the other bars. It’s been known to have shows, but that is often dependent upon how many customers the bar has.
No one type of bar is better than the others, every type has their fans. For a newbie to Bangkok’s gay gogo bar world, your best bet is to try them all. Several times.
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dwjazzlover said:
You are so right!! Loved this post. Thank you! My first bar was Screwboys, lots of years ago! I had a blast , My first experience was at Twilight and will always hold a special place in my heart.
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks DWjazz!
But I don’t think that was your heart that felt the impact of your first visit to Twilight!
🙂
Robert said:
At the sleaze bars, if there are no shows, are there less customers than at the mainstream gogo bars? What do the boys do? Just sit around waiting to be picked up or do they circulate around the room, flirting with the patrons, trying to drum up business for themselves. Do the boys there tend to be only average looking , or mostly unattractive and /or over 30 types?
Bangkokbois said:
They still tend to have a stage and the boys still do a rotation of sorts in their underwear. Though in many cases they’ll slowly drag themselves on stage when you walk in ‘cuz you may be the bar’s sole customer. A half dozen customers is a crowd in the sleaze bars. The boys don’t circulate so much as they make a beeline for you, and they not only try to drum up business but will conduct it right where you sit. Attractiveness depends on what you like so some swear by the guys at the sleaze bars. I’d tend to put them on the D list. When I’m feeling generous.
Eli said:
Hey, I was just wondering what kind of bar boys are there at Screwboys? I’m more into the masculine type, so I wondering which bar would probably suit my taste? Thanks in advance for the advice.
Bangkokbois said:
In a single word Screwboys’ boys are best summed up with rough. Down-market works too. You’ll find masculine guys there, as you will at almost every bar in Bangkok. Classic Boys at the far end of Soi Twilight may be the hold-out. They’ve always specialized in fems and twinks, though they do attempt to break out of that mold on occasion. Tawan would be the most masculine, but that masculinity comes with muscles. Dreamboy, Hot Male, and X-Size tend to have the largest selection of guys, so by numbers you’d probably do best at those bars in finding your ideal of masculine.
AznBoiSF said:
Hi,
Thanks for your very thorough, humorous and detailed exposé on Bangkok GoGo Bars. I’m interested in the kind of guys from Jupiter, taller, fair skin, pretty/handsome types (aka Daniel Wu, Daniel Henney, type of guys). Are there more GoGo bars like that in Bangkok?
Also, if I’m in it purely for the spectator aspect of it (haha!), not really interested in offing a boy, is there separate set of etiquette/guideline I should follow? Or can I just sit down, order my drinks, enjoy the show, settle my bill, then walk out? On second thought, I actually don’t mind offing 2 boys and see them going at it at each other in the privacy of my hotel room. What should I do? This is of course, purely hypothetical.
Bangkokbois said:
Not that I would know of course, but a friend of a friend told me . . .
Wait a minute. You went from just looking to an orgy back in your hotel room?
Dude, Bangkok was made for you!
🙂
Jupiter is the only bar where you will find that kind of guy in abundance. You may find one or two at Dreamboy, but the model look usually all work Jupiter instead. On the plus side, that is one of the few bars where you can just have a drink and enjoy the show. The mamasans may push you a bit to off a guy, but the guys seldom if ever approach and try it on their own. No reason to be polite to a mamasan (and many good reasons to not do so) so yup, you can just sit down, order your drinks, enjoy the show, settle the bill, then walk out.
If you want 2 guys your best bet is to pick one, make sure he is game, and then let him pick his partner. He may want to go elsewhere to find a guy. I hate to pass on false rumors, but have heard the guys at Jupiter just want quick short-time offs. That may not be true, but just in case, be prepared that he may turn you down for anything more involved (but you can always ask him for a recommendation on which of his bar mates might agree to it. In which case you should tip him 100 baht for the assist.)
Danny Lordan said:
I have been to Thailand (Bangkok – Pattaya) many times and have read tons of information on bars but I have never read an article that was as exact as this one. This is the best piece that I have ever read on Bangkok bars.. Thanks
Bangkokbois said:
Thanks Danny!
And thanks for taking the time to leave a comment.